Hey, this is Dan Savage, and welcome to the Savage Love podcast.

We'll get right to the calls because that's what it's all about.

But first, I have to say that last week I made a little error.

I was talking about the amount of ejaculate, the average man ejaculates,

and I referenced the band Loving

Teespoon, and there is no band Loving Teaspoon. It's actually Lovin' spoon full. I apologize to all

the rock snobs out there. When I was a kid, I was listening to Camelot while other kids were

listening to Morrissey, and I never got my rock and roll education.

So it's just a sort of mistake I would make.

But you all out there keeping me honest, keep me on my toes about my rock references.

So love and spoonfulful, folks, not love and teaspoon.

I apologize to everyone I offended so grievously by fucking that up.

All right, let's get to our first caller in this week's podcast.

Hi, my name's Melissa.

I'm 20 years old, and I have this problem with this boyfriend I have.

See, I found out that he likes porn, and I can't stand it because it just sickened to me on how he doesn't seem to want to have sex with me anymore.

He'd rather watch porn on his computer.

And I really need his voice of what to do.

Like, should I dump him?

What should I say to him?

Thanks.

So you discovered that your boyfriend likes porn. Here's a little newsflash. You're going to discover that every boyfriend you ever have throughout your life, every husband you ever have, whether it's just one or a whole collection of them, likes porn.

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