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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 723

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A woman's husband had low testosterone, so he started taking T. But then, he turned into a total asshole! Is this normal? Is this just what testosterone does? A trans woman has not yet had bottom surgery. While she waits, how can she find a woman who would want her as she is now, and how she will be later? On the Magnum, Dan chats with sex researcher Alexandra Marcotte about her study looking at how men and women differ in their enjoyment of dick pics. A woman has a girlfriend but they don't live together. The caller is very cautious about covid-19: She wipes all her groceries down, sterilizes the doorknobs- that sort of thing. Meanwhile, her girlfriend's roommates are going out to bars, throwing caution to the wind. How can the caller try to limit contact? Is there a huge fight in their future? Open your wallets and go to 206-302-2064   voicemail@savagelovecast.com This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at . This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Hello Fresh. Get fresh, pre-measured ingredients and mouthwatering seasonal recipes delivered right to your door. Get $80 off your first box when you go to .

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't ask on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.9

There are two doorstop books I've read from cover to cover at least three times.

0:29.3

One is the King James Bible, believe it or not.

0:32.9

But if you know, you've been paying attention to my advice over the years, it's basically been

0:38.1

one long, epic 30-year riff on due unto others as he would have them do unto you.

0:43.4

The other doorstop book I've read three times, the rise and fall of the Third Reich by William

0:48.4

Shireur.

0:49.5

Shire was a foreign correspondent for the Chicago Tribune and then for CBS Radio in Germany before

0:55.3

the Nazis came to power. And he kept a diary. He was an eyewitness to the rise of fascism.

1:02.0

And yeah, what Shira bore witness to in the 20s and early 30s before he had to leave

1:07.2

Berlin at the start of the war kind of feels like what we're living through

1:11.4

right here, right now. The parallels are unnerving, particularly what happened in Portland

1:18.0

this weekend, where Trump supporters mustered in a suburb and then drove through the center

1:22.5

of that liberal city harassing and pepper spraying BLM protesters and others who were just going about their lives.

1:30.0

That shit is straight out of the rise and fall of the Third Reich. Or as Lee Carter put it on

1:35.7

Twitter, the history of the Nazis holding rallies and left-wing areas of Weimar, Germany, instigating

1:41.1

street fights and then telling the press that only they could save Germany from

1:45.2

the violent communists seems like an important thing for people to be studying right now.

1:51.1

Trump is inciting violence. Violence he hopes will benefit him politically. Here's Kellyanne Conway,

1:57.6

all drama, no mama, saying the quiet part out loud on Fox News this Sunday.

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