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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 717

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2020

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A man has been with his boyfriend for a year. The boyfriend's supposedly straight roommate gives intimate hugs and drops obvious homo hints when he's drunk. The caller doesn't like him or trust him. Does he have to put up with this? This lady likes a giant, huge, enormous, really big penis. She proposes a hack for when she's with a more modestly endowed gentleman. Could she insert a yoni egg inside her vagina, to simulate that Big Dick feeling? Would this work? Dan? On the Magnum, we welcome the Kinsey Institute's Justin Lehmiller. Dan and Dr. Lehmiller discuss the difficulty of stating your sexual desires to a partner when your desires are...weird.  Or disturbing. It's tough out there for a closet kinkster. Dr. Lehmiller's rational thinking and soothing voice are a balm in these confusing times. Finally, a man is dating a woman he really likes. But her parents are Trump supporters. She claims she isn't going to vote at all in November. (!!!) Is she a secret Trump supporter? Does he have the right to demand she vote for Biden? Does this rise to DTMFA levels? Voicemail@savagelovecast.com      206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at . Today’s Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get 15% off your first order when you go to . This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

well, there's nothing you can't ask on Savage Lovecast.

0:23.6

So the city of Somerville did a thing.

0:26.9

Somerville, Massachusetts, population 82,000, winner of the Best American City Award in

0:31.7

1972, 2009 and 2015, suburb of Boston on the Mystic River, but not the setting of Mystic Pizza, the 1988

0:39.9

1988 comedy starring Julia Roberts that set in Mystic, Connecticut.

0:42.9

I looked it up anyway.

0:44.7

Somerville did a thing earlier this month that I probably should have paused to note here

0:49.0

on this thing I do, this podcast thing.

0:52.3

The Somerville City Council revised its domestic partnership law to cover polyamorous families.

0:58.5

Polytriads, quads, quints under its new domestic partnership ordinance, the New York Times reported earlier this month,

1:04.6

the city of Somerville now grants polyamorous groups, the rights held by spouses in marriage, such as the right to confer health

1:11.9

insurance benefits or make hospital visits. Before we get to the inevitable, predictable right-wing

1:18.6

freak out, which got a lot less traction than it would have if it weren't for COVID, Trump,

1:23.4

the worldwide movement to fight anti-black police brutality, the climate catastrophe, and

1:27.9

Nikki Minaj's pregnancy, and the way all of this shit kind of puts everything into perspective.

1:31.1

I want to highlight first just how stupid it is that so many people are dependent on the romantic

1:36.9

partners for health care, for health insurance.

1:40.6

It's almost as dumb as getting health insurance through your employer because you could lose your job, right when you need health care most.

1:48.6

Like, say, during an economic crisis kicked off by a worldwide pandemic that could put you in the hospital, like jobs, relationships sometimes end.

1:58.0

Sometimes they need to end.

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