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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 678

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 22 October 2019

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

A woman was apparently dating Genghis Khan. He told her he had had a vasectomy, but she got pregnant anyway. And so had a bunch of other women he dated. Her lawyer says she has a battery case. Her friends tell her to chill out. What do you think? A married woman has a very dear gay male friend. She wants to go on vacation with him. But is this too much? Too close? Too weird?  On the Magnum, are we sick of drag yet? No. No, we are not. Dan brings on the ever-delightful Simon Doonan to talk about the drag moment we're having, and his new book "Drag, The Complete Story." A woman has been with her boyfriend for 9 years- since middle school. No surprisingly, she's getting bored with the sex. They want to remain monogamous, but how can they "spice things up?" Swingers clubs? Exhibitionism? Other adventures? Dan has ideas! So do you. 206-302-2064 This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Boll and Branch: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to and enter Savage. This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Blue Apron. Check out this week’s menu and get $60 off at This episode is brought toy by Tushy- the modern bidet attachment that washes your ass completely. Go to and get 10% off your order with promo code SAVAGE. Stop wiping and start washing with TUSHY.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.5

There was a military coup d'etat in Argentina in 1976, and forgive me, I'm going to get a little Rachel Maddowie at the top of my show today, if that's all right.

0:33.5

This right-wing military junta would wind up running the country for eight bloody years.

0:39.0

More than 30,000 people were disappeared during Argentina's dirty war, activists, union organizers, journalists, and most of the disappeared were young people.

0:49.0

Men and women in their late teens, 20s, early 30s, students.

0:53.3

Some of the women who were arrested were pregnant because Argentina is an overwhelmingly Catholic country and because the men running the junta were themselves good Catholics. They didn't execute these pregnant women. They held them until they gave birth and then they executed them. And their children, these stolen children,

1:12.8

were given to childless military families to, quote, unquote, adopt and raise. More than 500

1:19.6

Argentinian children were stolen from their parents in this way, and it was only decades later

1:24.2

that many would learn of their true identities and what happened to their actual

1:29.1

mothers and fathers. Revisiting a shameful chapter in another nation's history is not meant

1:34.8

to deflect attention from the shameful chapter or shameful chapters, plural, the dozens and dozens

1:40.8

of them currently being written in our nation in the United States.

1:45.6

And the United States, of course, it must be acknowledged, played a role in Argentina's

1:50.0

dirty war. Henry Kissinger, then the Secretary of State, encouraged the Argentinian

1:54.8

coup leaders to destroy their opponents quickly. All those activist, union organizers,

2:00.0

students, and journalists, all those

2:01.1

pregnant women. And he suggested they destroyed them quickly so the dirty work could all be done

2:06.4

before there was an outcry over human rights abuses. It was impossible to read this story in

2:12.4

the Associated Press this weekend without thinking of Argentina's dirty war and appropriated children. The headline

2:19.4

undersells the horror. Deported parents may lose kids to adoption. We are separating

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