Savage Love Episode 67

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2008

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

The great porn debate: Does it harm women? Can it be produced ethically? • A man has been monitoring his 14-year-old’s online activity. Guess what! She’s having sex and drinking! Now what the hell should he do? • A man is in love with his sweetheart, but her friend is attempting to undermine the relationship. Who’s worse, the meddling friend or the easily swayed girlfriend? • A hooker with a heart of gold wants some advice on how to get the condoms on her clients without losing their lucrative erections. • A foster dad wants to help his gay daughter get over the idea that she's going to hell. And more. 206-302-2064.

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0:00.0	You're listening to a stranger podcast.
0:03.2	www.
0:03.7	The Stranger.com.
0:07.4	Hey, everybody.
0:08.2	Welcome to another installment of the Savage Lovecast.
0:10.3	I'm Dan Savage, and this is my once-a-week-out version of my sex advice column, Savage Love, which runs in a newspaper near you.
0:17.0	The number here, if you'd like to record a question for a future podcast, 206, 201, 2720.
0:22.5	We have shitloads of calls and tons of people standing by, anxious to talk to me.
0:26.8	And so let's get to it.
0:28.5	Hi, Mr. Dan Savage.
0:30.7	I love your show.
0:32.4	And I have a question for myself and my sister.
0:36.7	Both my ex-boyfriend and her current boyfriend,
0:40.1	who could be a future husband,
0:42.7	are into porn, okay, girly porn.
0:48.0	And my question is about the problems that it causes in a long-term relationship when it's this secretive sort of thing
0:58.4	and both my sister and I did not get turned on by it and it was not a part of the sex life.
1:05.7	In other words, it wasn't enhancing our sex life. It was like this thing that they would do in secret, and for my ex,
1:13.9	it was like taking away from our sex life, I felt sometimes, you know, like he wasn't really
1:19.3	interested, as interested in sex with me, because he was so used to objectifying sex that when
1:25.4	it came to intimate kind of sex, he couldn't handle it.
1:29.7	And I feel like a lot of guys use porn like that in a way to kind of objectify the whole
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