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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 667

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 August 2019

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Is it common for straight men to be "secretly into dick?" Because that's what this woman's boyfriend is. A transwoman got together with a guy in a dungeon. But she forgot to tell him that she is trans. Her lover told her it would be wise to reveal this detail early on. Should she? Must she? On the Magnum, a middle-aged woman is too damn horny. Dan brings on the ever-helpful Dr. Debby Herbenick to see if there's a medical cause or source of relief. And, a "poly-minded" man is only poly-minded when he's the one who gets to shtup other people. He's aware of the hypocrisy. How can he get over it? 206-302-2064 This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Blue Apron. Check out this week’s menu and get $60 off at This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. ThredUP is the world’s largest online thrift store with over 35,000 brands at up to 90% off retail price. For a limited time, get an extra 50% off your first order at .

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:25.0

Dayton, El Paso, Gilroy, Virginia Beach.

0:28.9

And that's just this summer.

0:30.9

I've been doing this podcast for almost a decade.

0:33.5

And I've opened this show, I don't know how many times, talking or having to talk about the latest mass shooting.

0:40.2

Ranting about the NRA and Republicans who refuse to pass the kind of gun safety regulations,

0:45.9

background checks, closing the gun show loopholes, safe storage, liability insurance,

0:49.8

the kind of gun safety regulations supported by super majorities of Americans,

0:55.3

including majorities of Republicans, gun owners, and for fuck sake, NRA members.

1:01.2

Actually, this morning I thought I'd take a look at the timeline of mass shootings in the United States

1:04.3

since we started doing this show and then guess at how many times I'd had to open the show talking about guns.

1:11.6

Turns out there have been 120 mass shootings in the United States over the last 10 years, which means I could

1:16.2

have opened one out of every five shows with a rant about guns.

1:21.5

Thousand Oaks, California, Pittsburgh, Parkland, it never stops. I was in Austria for the last few weeks to see friends hide out,

1:29.6

get some writing done. And a week ago, right before the mass shooting at the Gilroy

1:33.5

Garlic Festival, I said to one of my friends that there's always this moment that sneaks up on me

1:38.4

when I'm over there when it occurs to me that I haven't walked into a store or sat in a restaurant

1:43.8

or seen a show and thought,

1:45.5

I hope I don't get shot since I left the United States.

1:49.3

And the crazy thing is this usually occurs to me only after I start feeling a familiar kind of anxiety.

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