Savage Love Episode 643

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 February 2019

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

When bisexual friends go wild: A lesbian has been buddies with a bi woman for a while. Guess what happened when they got drunk! Now, the bi friend is asking her boyfriend for a hall pass to sleep with the lesbian friend. But will their friendship be able to withstand all this newfound passion? Hear two tales concerning the ethics of HIV disclosure: A male/female couple have always been bi and open. But when they both got HIV it became much more difficult to find other partners willing to take the risk. And, a transwoman sex worker also has HIV. She is on meds, and undetectable. Her sugar daddy wants to take her on a fabulous trip. Should she tell him? Speaking of sex workers, on the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Lucy Platt about her study looking at how criminalization of sex work affects the health of sex workers. And, dating handsome bartenders. It ain't easy. 206-302-2064 ThredUP is the world’s largest online thrift store with over 35,000 brands at up to 90% off retail price. Get an extra 30% off your first order at . This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. Thanks to Roman for supporting Savage Lovecast. Roman is a men’s health company that offers remote online diagnosis for ED and convenient monthly delivery of medication. For a free online, visit

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.
0:06.6	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:16.2	while there's nothing you can't last on the savage love cast.
0:25.3	Victimhood has a perverse and alluring currency on the left and the right.
0:30.5	And it can make people do stupid things like fake a hate crime.
0:34.8	Now, I'm not talking about who you think I'm talking about.
0:37.2	I haven't tweeted about who you think I'm talking about or talking about who you think I'm talking about. I haven't
0:37.6	tweeted about who you think I'm talking about or written about who you think I'm talking about
0:41.2	or talked about who you think I'm talking about on this show. When that story first broke,
0:46.5	I decided to wait. Not because I didn't think the crime as described couldn't possibly have
0:51.9	happened, but because people do file false reports. That is also
0:56.7	a thing that happens. So yeah, to be clear, I am not talking about the person you think I'm
1:03.6	talking about, the person everyone has been talking about on Twitter and Facebook and Good
1:08.4	Morning America and Colbert for weeks.
1:11.5	Nope.
1:15.9	I'm talking about the gay man in Florida who claimed he'd been abducted by three black men.
1:20.6	I'm talking about the lesbian in Nebraska who claimed that three masked men broke into her home and carved anti-gay sclurs into her flesh.
1:23.5	I'm talking about the gay college student in Wisconsin who claimed a masked man, broke into his
1:28.2	apartment and put a rope around his neck and attempted to strangle him. Not for being gay, but for
1:34.1	being a Republican. Quick aside, the same conservative media outlets now scolding reporters at
1:39.3	mainstream outlets for believing the guy you probably thought I was talking about. They didn't
1:44.1	wait for the results of the investigation in the case of the gay college
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