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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 637

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 8 January 2019

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A Jewish woman is bringing her boyfriend to the Hanukkah party. Great, right? But as always, there's a problem. He has a HITLER MUSTACHE. Because he "likes the look." Dan chats with this woman, and you get to listen. A young man's parents discovered kinky sexts on his phone. How can he explain BDSM to his freaked out mom n' pop? On the Magnum, a man is in an open relationship, but his girlfriend doesn't like that he sees sex workers. He just likes it. Should he try to stop? Or keep doing it and lie? Or break up? And Dan counsels a bi woman on how to support her younger gay cousin growing up in a hostile environment, just like she did. 206-302-2064 This episode of the Savage love cast is brought to you by Everlane: Luxury basic clothing and accessories, made at ethical factories without those retail markups. For free shipping, and to support the Lovecast, go to This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Boll and Branch: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to and enter Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. I've met some, what's the word? It's on the tip of my tongue. Oh, right. I have met some kinky motherfuckers. That's the word I was looking for there. Motherfuckers. Thank you, Representative Rashida Talib, for helping me out. Anyway, I have met some kinky motherfuckers in my time.

0:39.1

I've talked to some on this show.

0:40.6

I've hooked up with a few.

0:41.6

I may have even married one.

0:43.1

I like kinky motherfuckers, usually.

0:46.6

But I have never met a kinkier or less likable motherfucker

0:49.9

than the kinky and repulsive motherfucker behind biblical gender roles.

0:54.9

Now, I'd like to think no one reads the website, BGR, not to be confused with the

0:59.5

Supreme Court Justice RBG, justice I'd like to think no one reads the Wall Street

1:03.5

Journal's op-ed page. But both sadly have readers. There's actually a lively discussion

1:09.0

under the particular BGR post, a listener directed me to.

1:12.9

But before we go any further, I'm going to issue a rare content warning, heads up for misogyny,

1:17.9

sexual violence, and Bible citations.

1:20.9

So after reading why a wife should endure painful sex with her husband at BGR, I hoped it was a parody site, the onion now

1:29.2

with Leviticus, but nope, BGR appears to be on the up and up. And in this 3,200-word article,

1:35.7

the author argues he makes the case for Christian wives enduring pain during sex, enduring it

1:42.1

and covering it up so as not to needlessly alarm the Christian

1:46.6

husband on top of them causing them pain during sex.

1:50.4

The argument goes like this.

1:52.4

God created man in his image to bring glory to God because really what's more glorious than

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