Savage Love Episode 634

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2018

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Dear Australia, Hi! This is the Savage Lovecast. Listen. Do you guys refer to the very common sexual position where a man enters a woman from behind while she is on all fours as ..."Doggity Style?" No? We didn't think so. (Both Dan and Nancy are gobsmacked by this call.) A man's friend has been accused of sexual assault from when they were both in a pseudo-Christian cult. The caller believes the women, but also wants to support his friend and help him to become a better person. How? Strap-ons...for MEN??!! Well, sure! So says Erika Moen, our resident sex toy expert, and co-author of a new sex ed book called Drawn to Sex: the Basics. And, on the Magnum version, does enjoyment of spicy food correlate to being a sub? Oh, for Christ's sake. 206-302-2064 This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Rothy's: everyday flat shoes for women and girls. Machine washable and made from recycled plastic bottles. For free shipping, go to and enter Savage. This episode of the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by Boll and Branch: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to and enter Savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.
0:06.7	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:16.2	well, there's nothing you can can't ask on Savage Lovecast.
0:24.7	Today is a sad day.
0:26.6	Millions of Tumblr porn blogs perished yesterday as Tumblr's ban on adult content went into effect on Monday.
0:32.6	This won't be a problem for people looking for porn online.
0:35.5	You can still find porn on the internet. I checked.
0:39.1	No, Tumblr's ban on adult content is sad and it's a problem, a real cause for mourning.
0:45.4	Because a lot of people with minority sexual identities or niche sexual interests sought and found
0:50.9	communities on Tumblr. And a lot of sex workers sought and found community and some measure of safety on Tumblr.
0:57.9	We'll have more on the depressing Tumblr news next week.
1:00.8	Like I said, today is a sad day for sexual expression and a sad day for a free and open internet.
1:05.9	But for some listeners out there, it is shaping up to be a sad week.
1:09.7	And that's what I want to talk about today.
1:12.1	Christmas is coming. And this year, like every year, the media is force-feeding us idealized
1:17.9	images of what Christmas is supposed to look like. Loving families, gathering together to give
1:23.0	each other cars, to talk, hug, reconcile, and carboload themselves into comas.
1:29.3	But not everyone gets a car for Christmas.
1:32.0	Not everyone is going home for Christmas.
1:34.8	And in some cases, it might be my fault.
1:37.9	There are people out there, I'm told, who actually take my advice.
1:42.0	And some of you have taken my advice on how to handle your homophobic families or your
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