Savage Love Episode 613

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 24 July 2018

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

A woman who lives in a group house likes listening in when someone is having sex near her. Handwringing ensues. Is this unethical? Should she feel guilty? Should she stop? A woman who has gone from eating way too little to eating way too much, wrestles with how to talk about the diminishing sex with her boyfriend. On the Magnum, Dan convenes a high-powered lesbian panel to handle a few questions concerning processing, fighting, processing, how to define yourself, and processing. Lady-loving ladies rejoice! And, a gay man is annoyed that all the films he's seen show gay sex in one, predictable, tedious position. Why do filmmakers lack imagination? 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by . Get 50% off just about any item, plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage". This episode of the Savage love cast is brought to you by Everlane: Luxury basic clothing and accessories, made at ethical factories without those retail markups. For free shipping, and to support the Lovecast, go to Today’s episode is brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals for free (a $30 value) with free shipping by going to .

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.
0:06.6	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:16.1	well, there's nothing you can't last on the Savage Lovecast.
0:24.6	You know that expression, always stop and smell the roses?
0:27.7	I grew up in the big city, the mean streets of Chicago's north side.
0:31.7	Haven't lived in Chicago for two plus decades, but I am still repin Rogers Park.
0:36.2	And my version, my city mouse, not a lot of roses around version of always stop and smell
0:40.5	the roses, goes like this.
0:42.5	Always stop and read the dumpster graffiti.
0:45.2	I don't live in Chicago anymore, but I am still reading dumpster graffiti.
0:49.3	And walking home from work the other day through the mean green streets of Seattle, something
0:53.8	scrawled on a dumpster with a silver ink pen caught my eye.
0:58.1	Forced to wear diapers and girls clothes for my wife's friends. All caps. Pop quiz, Savage Lovecast listeners.
1:06.5	Is dumpster graffiti confessor guy bragging or complaining. Do do do do do do do.
1:12.2	All right, pencils down.
1:13.2	If you answered neither, you were correct.
1:16.2	Sorry, trick question.
1:17.8	Our dumpster graffiti confessor guy isn't complaining and he's most likely not bragging either.
1:23.4	And although women can have wives these days, dumpster graffiti confessor guy almost certainly is a he.
1:28.9	Anyway, I have two hunches.
1:30.7	One, whoever wrote this was hard when he did.
1:33.2	And two, there is no wife.
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