Savage Love Episode 61

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2007

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

On this week's Savage Lovecast: When does a poly relationship turn to poison? Dan solves an interoffice squabble about whether female ejaculation is a myth or a beautiful, sloppy reality. A guy with little sexual experience has fears about approaching women. Should he be honest about his inexperience? A pretty but heavy girl is trapped in a beach town with a bunch of skinny babes and immature jackasses. How long must she wait to catch a good man who appreciates a curve or two? And finally: Poor, poor Owen. Owen is the boy a previous caller moved to New York for, despite his selfish, manipulative behavior. He called the show to assure Dan that he was in the right, his girlfriend was lying, and their relationship is just fine. Listen to the carnage that ensues. 206-302-2064. If you've been on the show, please call and give us an update!

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0:00.0	You're listening to a Stranger podcast.
0:03.2	www.
0:03.7	The Stranger.com.
0:05.9	Hey, everybody.
0:06.7	Welcome to another installment of the Savage Lovecast.
0:09.7	This is Dan Savage, and this is the once-a-week out-loud version of my sex advice column,
0:13.7	Savage Love.
0:14.5	If you want to record a question for a podcast, 206, 201-2720 is the number.
0:20.2	Please include your name and a callback number in case we want to ask your follow-up question.
0:24.5	And you download this every week at www.com slash savage.
0:29.2	We've got tons of calls to get to, including a podcast first.
0:34.9	Someone whose girlfriend, I advised to dump him, is calling up to let me have it.
0:41.5	And we'll get to him at the end of the show. But right now, let's get to some other calls.
0:45.4	Hi, Dan, this is, I'm bisexual and polyamorous and or supposedly polyamorous. My boyfriend of a little over a year has recently
0:57.3	gotten a new girlfriend and I've gotten extremely jealous and around the same time, although
1:03.9	a little before he started dating her, we started having a lot of problems in bed and And we've pretty much stopped having sex.
1:13.3	He says that he hasn't lost his attraction for me, but things have changed.
1:18.8	And we're just not sleeping together, even though I would like to very much.
1:23.6	But I just wonder, this is really painful, and it's difficult for me to be around his other girlfriend, or the new one.
1:32.9	And I was just wondering, do you think this is a sign that maybe I'm not really polyamorous, that maybe I need to be unanimous?
1:42.0	Hey, Melissa, it's Dan.
1:43.3	I just listen to your call. Oh, hi, it's Dan. I just listen to your call.
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