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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 568

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Society & Culture

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2017

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A woman offers proof that sexual harassment is about power. One of her students, a gay man, sexually harasses her regularly. Why would he do this? A fetish too far: A woman's boyfriend can only get off if they are doing play simulating kidnapping, bondage and human trafficking. She broke up with him because she just couldn't go there all the time. But now he feels shamed. Poor baby. Dan welcomes comedian Amy Miller to talk about the inadvisability of fucking comedians. Also, hear the tale of the woman with a dark power. We shall call her The Boner Killer.   She didn't ask for this. 206-302-2064 The Savage Lovecast is also sponsored by Casper, an online retailer of premium mattresses for a fraction of the price -- because everyone deserves a great night’s sleep.  Get $50 off any mattress purchase by visiting and enter the promo code savagelove. This podcast is also brought to you by . Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for postage and a digital scale. Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron- the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to .

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.5

I hate Bachelor and Bachelorette parties.

0:27.7

That's not new.

0:28.5

That's not news.

0:29.1

Anytime Bachelor and Bachelorette parties come up in the context of a question here on the Savage Lovecast,

0:34.6

I go off on how much I hate them because of what they symbolize. What they symbolize is marriage is the end of fun. You're about to get married, so this is

0:42.8

your last chance to get a lap dance, to go out and get drunk with your friends, and you got to really go for it.

0:49.9

This is the last night of your life, the last night of freedom. And I hate that.

0:55.0

I hate the message that sends because marriage should be an adventure.

0:59.2

Marriage should be the fun that you're having now with this person.

1:02.4

You should still be able to, I don't know, both of you go.

1:05.1

I'll get a lap tons together every once in a while.

1:07.1

If you convince people that marriage is the end of fun and adventure, then people who

1:12.7

long for fun and adventure, and people do, people want variety, people want new experiences, people

1:17.7

want lap dances. If you convince them of the only way they can have that is to get not married

1:22.9

anymore, they will engineer the ends of their marriages. This is all just my way of letting

1:27.0

you know that there's no intro really for the top of this week's show.

1:29.9

No commentary on current political events because I am off having an adventure with my husband.

1:36.5

It is possible for you to do that thing, to be married, to be married almost a quarter of a century.

1:42.1

Terry and I have been together almost 25 years and

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