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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 536

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 31 January 2017

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A married Canadian lesbian is about to meet the Syrian refugees that her parents are hosting. But she worries that they will not approve of gay people. How should she present herself and her wife to these traumatized people from a different culture?   A woman gets strep throat every time she gives head. What the hell?   On the Magnum, a gay man's mother keeps expecting him to go back in the closet when he visits with relatives. How can he train his mother to act like a decent human being?   A poly woman had kinky sex with her dom boyfriend. But the boyfriend has a wife and he tells her EVERYTHING. How can the caller maintain some privacy in her new poly  world?   206-302-2064   This episode is brought to you by . Get 50% off just about any item, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage".   This podcast is also brought to you by . Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.   Today’s episode is also brought to you by Blue Apron. the delivery service that sends you fresh ingredients and incredible recipes so you can make fabulous meals at home. Check out this week’s menu and get your first 3 meals free by going to .

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.2

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.9

Abortion rights. Abortion. According to a new study from the Gutmacher Institute, abortion is at its lowest levels since the Supreme Court found that women were citizens, that they own their own bodies, and that the Constitution protected a woman's right to make

0:37.5

her own reproductive choices, including the right to terminate a pregnancy, which the Supreme

0:42.1

Court found way, way back in 73, 1973.

0:44.7

Abortion rates right now as low as they were in 1973.

0:49.2

And it's not abstinence education, which numerous studies and the Palin family have shown

0:53.9

to be a failure,

0:55.0

kids who've had abstinence-only sex ed are actually likely to get pregnant and likely

0:59.0

as contract in STI than kids who've had comprehensive sex education.

1:03.0

Because, as it turns out, telling kids that condoms don't work and they shouldn't bother

1:08.0

makes them less likely to use condoms when they inevitably

1:11.2

decide to have sex. No one could have predicted. And it's not restrictions on access to abortion

1:16.6

rammed through state legislatures by Republican majorities after 2010 and 2012. This data comes from

1:22.3

way, way back in 2011, the most recent year for which we have at this data set. And it shows there were fewer

1:28.2

than 17 abortions for every 1,000 women in 2011, again, the lowest rate since 1973.

1:34.9

Credit goes to increased access to contraceptives, particularly newer, safer, longer-lasting

1:39.8

IUDs, intrauterine devices that women have been opting for in ever-growing numbers. IUDs have

1:45.5

much lower failure rates than the pill and condoms because unlike the pill, you can't forget

1:50.0

to take your IUD one morning. And unlike condoms, your IUD can't break. And it also can't be

1:55.8

removed by some sneaky rando asshole halfway through sex. So yay, abortion rates way, way down, or they were in

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