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Paraphylia is a fancy word for a kink.

It's defined as a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires,

typically involving extreme or dangerous activities.

Paraphylia.

There is a word, though, for non-paraphyliacs that I was not familiar with called

normophilia, normophilia, normophilic desires, which are, I guess, standard issue.

Everybody should have them.

This is the norm.

Majority desires. That's what

mean by normative is majoritarian usually is what we mean by that. And I've always felt that

even when I encounter people who appear to be normal sexually or people who claim to be

just average, regular people, everybody's got something from column C.

Column A, vaginal, oral, even anal.

Column B, you know, rolling around, maybe some of your standard issue fantasies.

Column C, kinks.

Something crazy.

You want to get peed on.

You're a necropheliac. You are into crazy bondage. You're into giants. You're into centaurs. You have rape fantasies. You have antebellum, master slave fantasies. Whatever it is, you have something going on between your ears erotically. And if you're lucky and you've managed to incorporate your desires in an ethical, responsible,

consensual way into your sex life, you have it going on in your bedroom too,

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