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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 479

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 29 December 2015

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

A woman has started “living her passion” by working as a webcam girl. But she’s nervous about telling her mother about her new career. How can she break the news? A woman fulfilled a lifelong fantasy of having a super-hot threeway with two bi men. But now, she wants to escalate the situation and get with some gay men. How can she troll for homos while still respecting their boundaries? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Justin Lehmiller for a “What You Got?” about  lower STI rates among the non-monogamous. Who’d a thunk it? Dan also chats with Robby Soeve from Reason.com about the hideous phenomenon of police persecuting kids who send sexts to each other. Doesn’t it just make you SO MAD? Happy New Year! 206-302-2064 The Savage Lovecast is sponsored by Headspace, the guided meditation app that will help you focus and reduce stress. Start your FREE TRIAL today at headspace.com/savage This episode is also brought to you by Club W- the wine club that helps you to choose wine that suits your taste and ships it right to your door. For 50% off your first order, go to Club W.com/savage.  This episode of the Savage Lovecast is also brought to you by BollandBranch.com: luxury, affordable fair trade certified sheets. Get $50 off a set of sheets plus free shipping by going to Boll and Branch.com end enter Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

while there's nothing you can ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.6

I hate to admit it, but I'm one of those white people.

0:27.7

I'm one of those white people who had a knee-jerk, kind of defensive reaction when black lives matter protesters shut down a Bernie Sanders rally here in Seattle, which was some weeks after they had interrupted a Bernie Sanders speech at NetRutes Nation.

0:41.4

And my reaction was, oh, my God, why are they attacking or interrupting or shutting down Bernie Sanders and not going after Jeb Bush or Ted Cruz or Marco Rubio or Donald Trump.

0:55.2

And shortly after Black Lives Matter, protesters got in the face of Hillary Clinton.

0:58.6

And I had the same sort of defensive white Democrat reaction.

1:02.1

Like, why are they attacking the people who are on their side and not attacking the evil GOP shit stains?

1:09.6

Who are there, who are our enemies? All of us. Everyone on the planet, the GOP shit stains who are there, who are our enemies, all of us.

1:13.2

Everyone on the planet, the GOP is the enemy of everyone on the fucking planet now with their

1:17.8

obstructionism and denialism of climate change.

1:21.2

But yes, there are enemies too.

1:23.7

And the enemies of the Black Lives Matter movement, absolutely.

1:26.8

And I just thought, why aren't they going after them?

1:28.3

Why go after Bernie and Hillary?

1:30.3

But then it wasn't long until even I came to my senses.

1:35.3

Even I saw the results of those actions when Bernie Sanders and Hillary Clinton

1:39.3

pivoted from the usual platitudes and presumptions of democratic politicians, where they would issue platitudes about racial equality and presumed to have locked up the black vote and the votes of other people who give a shit about black lives, myself included.

1:56.3

And then that would be it. Some platitudes and a presumption. Plattitudes. And I can presume to have locked down your boat.

2:02.3

And what we saw coming out of Hillary and Bernie in the wake of these confrontations

2:05.5

weren't just platitudes and presumption, but policy positions and promises that were not

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