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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 459

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 August 2015

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Dan on the Republican empathy gap. Why does the Republican party care so much about Fox News’ Megyn Kelly, but not so much about you?  A woman doesn’t understand how bondage, S&M, humiliation and rape fantasies can take place in the context of a loving relationship.  On the Magnum, Dan and writer/blogger Amanda Marcotte dish about the Republican primaries, and how the “War Against Women” is still very much ON.  A man keeps his past open relationship secret. How can he be an ambassador for open relationships without broadcasting his personal business?  And more!  206- 302-2064 The Savage Lovecast is sponsored by Casper, an online retailer of premium mattresses for a fraction of the price -- because everyone deserves a great night’s sleep.  Get $50 off any mattress purchase by visiting casper.com/savage and enter the promo code savage.  This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage".

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.6

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:23.6

We've got a great example in the news in the last week of a certain kind of Republican,

0:30.5

conservative blind spot thought process, the way it works for them and the way it doesn't

0:36.6

work for them, evidence of what I've described as that conservative GOP Republican Fox News empathy deficit

0:45.1

or inability to empathize to project yourself into someone else's experience.

0:49.8

And we have just the greatest example, to add to the list of examples, Rush Limbaugh is for incarcerating drug offenders until he's a drug offender himself.

0:59.7

Suddenly he sees the light and he's for treatment over incarceration because it happened to him.

1:03.7

Republicans are generally against stem cell research, except for Nancy Reagan because Alzheimer's happened to her husband.

1:11.4

So it happened to her. So she's a Republican who's for stem cell research because it happened to her. Rob Portman

1:16.9

against gay marriage until his son comes out and then he's for gay marriage because it happened

1:22.7

to him. When your kid was gay and couldn't get married, fuck you and fuck your kid. Oh, but now it's my kid. And I can suddenly empathize. I couldn't empathize when it was your kid was gay and couldn't get married, fuck you and fuck your kid. Oh, but now it's my kid.

1:28.3

And I can suddenly empathize. I couldn't empathize when it was your kid because fuck you again and fuck your kid again. Fuck your gay kid twice.

1:34.9

But it happened to me. And so I suddenly have a feeling. And I can see the logic.

1:40.9

Megan Kelly, Fox News anchor. Suddenly four paid maternity leave when she drops a kid.

1:48.0

When she has a kid, she can see the logic.

1:50.1

She's one of the few Republicans who's for maternity leave because she has a kid herself and is a working woman.

1:58.1

Speaking of Megan Kelly, last Thursday night, I was one of the many millions of Americans

2:03.5

glued to the television set for the first GOP debate. I watched the kids table debate with

2:09.6

little Ricky Santorum, whose poll numbers have collapsed into the zeros since that night. Too bad,

2:16.5

so sad, poor little Ricky Santorum.

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