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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 429

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2015

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

How can you tell when a slap to the face is welcome or unwelcome in a BDSM situation? A weepy slapper wants to know.  How much trouble can naughty photos on Tumblr cause your new boyfriend?  Chest tattoos: hot or not? Dan welcomes Heather Havrilesky of "Ask Polly" to tackle this one in a Second Opinion. And on the Magnum, does a woman have a right to ask about her new boyfriend's prescription for Cialis? Nancy weighs in!  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by NatureBox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage".

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.8

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.1

well, there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast. There's so you can't ask on Savage Lovecast.

0:24.5

There's so many horrible things that had happened in the world in the last week that

0:27.4

I could rant about at the top of the show, the massacre in the offices of Charlie Hebdo in

0:34.0

Paris last week, which was horrifying and distressing. The massacre in Nigeria by Boko Har Paris last week, which was horrifying and distressing the massacre in Nigeria by

0:40.1

Boko Haram last week, which news is just getting out about horrifying and depressing.

0:44.3

The Republican takeover of both houses of the U.S. Congress, Mitch McConnell as Senate

0:49.5

majority leader, horrifying and depressing.

0:52.6

But I don't really want to talk about any of those things right

0:55.7

now. I kind of need a pass on horrifying and depressing, particularly after last week's

1:00.4

opening was horrifying and depressing the news about Lila Aylcorn's suicide. So I just want to

1:07.8

set the horrifying and depressing and big sort of world news or national

1:12.6

news stories aside and focus on something personal and something in my life, in my orbit,

1:20.0

that you may be going through right now, actually, that you may be experiencing this.

1:25.7

It's January. I'm a regular gym goer.

1:28.6

I go all the time.

1:30.1

It is my antidepressant.

1:31.6

I'm not a gym rat.

1:33.3

I am not all ripped and shredded.

1:36.4

But I go to the gym and I exercise because if I don't get exercise, I get depressed.

1:39.9

And I have relatives who take antidepressants and I take ellipticals and weights. I lift weights, and I'm not sad. If I don't get exercise, I get really depressed. I go to the gym. And there are new people at the gym in January. There are the New Year's resolvers. We see you. You pour into the gym. The regular times at which we could go to the gym and be assured of,

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