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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 395

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2014

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

In our first installment of "Second Opinion," Dan and Slate's Dear Prudence face off on how to deal with poisonous in-laws, and how much to tip when you receive an unexpected happy ending.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Paul Vasey about feeders, and whether it's possible to re-wire your kinky brain.  And so much more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage This episode is also brought to you by GoToMeeting. Start a 30 day free trial with the promo code SAVAGE.  This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com.

0:06.4

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:16.0

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:24.7

They called it last week the gay sonic boom.

0:27.7

It was, of course, Michael Sam, the football player from Missouri who got drafted into the NFL,

0:33.6

the first openly gay football player ever drafted into the NFL. There have been other gay

0:39.0

football players, all of whom came out after their careers were over, going all the way back to the

0:43.5

70s when David Cope wrote a terrific memoir about being gay in the NFL in the 60s and 70s. But

0:50.4

Michael Sam, first openly gay football player drafted into the NFL.

0:54.5

They called it the gay sonic boom, and that wasn't him being drafted.

0:57.8

It was him in the living room where he was waiting for the news, turning to his boyfriend,

1:01.9

who is a swimmer, and kissing him on the lips.

1:06.0

And it was just a quick pack, a quick celebratory kiss shared between significant others because of this major

1:12.1

sort of achievement milestone in life.

1:14.3

And people lost their shit.

1:15.9

People really did shit their pants all over America because this was being broadcast on ESPN.

1:21.5

Now it's just known as the kiss.

1:23.8

And everybody had to take sides about the kiss.

1:26.5

And whether it was appropriate because there were

1:28.2

children out there watching ESPN with their dads when these two dudes kissed. And of course,

1:34.3

we then have to have the tiresome debate about what do you tell your children about this thing

1:40.3

that they've just seen? And there was a great tweet that I saw kicking around. I wish I could

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