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I don't get many emails like this, but I get one every once in a while.

And it kind of blows my mind because I don't understand exactly what the problem is.

But somebody wrote me because they were in their siblings' house and they found their siblings'

quote-un unquote playroom.

They found a room with some hooks in the ceiling and the slang and these are straight

siblings.

This is straight guy and his wife and sisters over and she finds this room that's obviously

a little sex palace for them and maybe some light bondage or whatever.

Is that this straight couple enjoys in their room dedicated to sex solely.

And the person who wrote me wasn't the sibling whose sex playroom was found who was upset

that his sister was snooping, but the sister who was very concerned that her brother was

deviant and perverted in unhealthy ways.

Which calls to what that's exactly the phrase she is deviant and perverted in unhealthy ways. So she's what. That's exactly the phrase she is, deviant and perverted

in unhealthy ways. So she's at least leaving open the possibility that there are deviancies and

perversions that are healthy. But she wanted to know how she should respond to this and what she can

do to help her brother get over it or get past it. To help her brother stop doing something that he enjoys, presumably his spouse enjoys and that doesn't do anyone else harm.

And I read this going, did you mean to send this to Anne Landers 35 years ago?

Why are you writing to me?

You can't write to me if you don't read me and how would you think I would react to this?

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