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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 361

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2013

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Are young ladies allowed to call or "text"  unattached, young men to ask for a date? Or would this tarnish a girl's valued reputation?  A sex worker wonders if it's ethical for her to fake orgasms with her clients. On the Magnum version, Dan speaks with the saintly Carl Siciliano, from NYC's Ali Forney Center, the nation's largest organization dedicated to homeless LGBT youths. (Confidential to homophobic parents everywhere: You don't really want your kid to live on the streets do you? Do you?) A bewildered straight couple wonders: In which bathroom should our nation's drag queens dwell?  Fragrance. Do you have to wear it if your partner wants you to? This episode is brought to you by Audible. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at   Today's episode is also brought to you by . Get 50 percent off almost any item when you enter "Savage" at checkout.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast, www.com. If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony, while there's nothing you can pass pass on Savage Mubcast.

0:23.6

When it comes to activism, and I'm still an activist, I was an act up in Queer Nation a long time ago, and I regard my column sometimes as a, you know, a platform from which I can launch an activist crusade, like the It Gets Better Project.

0:36.2

When it comes to activism, you know, those of us who are die-hards and willing to throw

0:40.5

ourselves into it 24 hours a day for a particular cause, for a particular amount of time,

0:44.9

what we have to do for everybody else who isn't as passionate or has lives and other

0:49.4

responsibilities that are drawing on their time is activists have to identify the doable

0:53.3

thing. The thing

0:54.5

that people who want, who care and want to make a contribution can do and get done and

0:59.8

feel good about and make a contribution. And if you get enough people to do that small

1:05.2

doable thing, all of those people coming together, thousands or millions of people coming

1:09.8

together to do the doable thing, can really make a change because collectively they, you know, all of us together

1:15.3

can punch above our weight as individuals.

1:17.6

And that's really what the It Gets Better Project was.

1:19.1

It was the doable thing.

1:21.1

Sit in front of your computer and talk for 10 minutes.

1:22.9

Turn on your goddamn video recording thing on your computer and talk.

1:27.9

Talk about where you were when you were 15 and where you are now and how it got better

1:31.4

for you, what you did to make it better for yourself and help put into perspective for

1:35.7

a lot of these queer kids what they're suffering through right now.

1:39.0

Clear kids who are being bullied or isolated alone.

1:41.6

And enough people did that that had this huge impact.

1:43.7

But it was a small thing, this tiny little thing that any one individual could do, this

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