Hey, this is Dan Savage, and you're listening to the Savage Love podcast, a little experiment and advice dissemination that I'm doing.

Thanks for downloading or whatever listening.

I'm not very technically proficient, so I'm not exactly sure what's going on, but the youth here in the office who are running the podcast tell me that we're doing

fine. So here's how it works. People call in. They record a question. I listen to them. I record an

answer, and you download it and listen to it. It's all very technically advanced and complicated.

Let's get to the calls. Hello, Dan Savage. I have a boyfriend who has a diaper fetish, and he's not an adult baby, and he's never

been in the relationship before me.

So our relationship is sexual, and I've never been in a relationship with someone who had

a fetish before.

I'm curious, what is the best way to satisfy a man with just a pure diaper fetish?

And how do I go about doing that?

He likes BDSM.

He's definitely a sub.

And apparently so am I.

So I'm just curious what types of things would he like and what would be suggestions of what I could do to get him off and make him feel good with or without getting him off.

That is my question. Thank you.

First, let me say that your diaper fetishist boyfriend is the luckiest diaper fetishist on the planet.

Most men with diaper fetishes, and it's usually men who have diaper fetishes

for some strange reason. There are women out there with diaper fetishes, and they are in great

demand because the supply of them is so low compared to the number of men. Anyway, most women,

when they find out their partner has a diaper fetish, run screaming in the opposite direction,

which I don't understand, you know, as fetishes go,

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