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Hey, everybody, thanks for joining us.

We have a very special guest with us today, and we're going to introduce her now.

Amy Lang, sexual health and parent educator.

Your website is www.

birds and bees and kids.com. Tell us about what you do. I help parents figure out how to talk to their kids about sex, love, and relationships. I help parents figure out how to talk to each other about sex, love, and relationships. I kind of stay away from the whole kid issue. Understandably. I actually stay away from the kid issue, too, because I don't actually ever work with kids except my own. I've got a 10-year-old. But I, yeah. So you don't work directly with kids. What is it that you do then? So I help parents figure out. I basically help parents get over themselves so they can get on with these conversations. And so my goal is to actually put you out of work. So you don't get all these whacked out phone calls from people who are so confused about their sexuality and sex. Oh, so you want these parents to raise smarter, better kids who are more secure in their sexualities to put me out of work. But that's going to take like 20 years to burn through. And by then I'll be totally ready to retire. So you have at it. I know. That's my plan. Like, can you see that? How beautiful that would be. No, I can't see it. I can't see one sexual health educator working in Seattle defeating the Mormon church and the Catholic Church and conservative Episcopalians and Muslim and everybody else who screws people up about their sexuality. I really can't see it. And sometimes liberal, progressive, squishy, huggy parents screw their kids up about their sexualities too. I know. It's not just big scary religions. Oh, I know.

I mean, there's a lot of screw up about it.

So anyway, my hope is that I can help parents really get over themselves so they can feel more comfortable talking to their kids and at least get the party started and start having conversations and help their kids as best they can. All right. We're going to see if you can do that when we take some questions from parents who want to know what the fuck to do about their fucking kids after fucking this.

This episode. All right, we're going to see if you can do that when we take some questions from parents who want to know what the fuck to do about their fucking kids after fucking this.

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Hey, Dan. My name is Sarah. I'm 30 years old. I've been married to my husband. We've been

together nine years now married for about five. I'm calling today because we have three children.

The oldest is nine and a half. And I'm calling today because we have three children. The oldest is nine and a half.

And I'm starting to get anxious about the sex talk.

I have always operated with my kids under.

They will ask me things that they're wondering about or need to know,

you know, when they're ready, when it's time for them to know.

And she hasn't, and I feel like maybe it's time to bring the issue up myself.

And I don't want to screw it up.

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