Savage Love Episode 178
Savage Lovecast
Dan Savage
4.6 • 6.4K Ratings
🗓️ 16 March 2010
⏱️ 38 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | You're listening to a Stranger podcast, www.com. If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony, while there's nothing you can't pass on the Savage Lovecast. Constance McMillan is an 18-year-old, out lesbian, out in her high school senior. |
| 0:29.8 | And that's not that remarkable today. A lot of teenagers are coming out. New York Times Magazine just did a story about kids coming out middle school all over the |
| 0:37.8 | country. People are coming out younger and younger. And Constance McMillan has a girlfriend |
| 0:41.9 | and her prom is coming up and she wanted to take her girlfriend to prom. And so she let her |
| 0:46.4 | high school know that she was thinking about taking her girlfriend to prom. And her high school |
| 0:50.6 | flipped out, told her that she was not allowed to bring her girlfriend to prom, also not allowed to wear a tuxedo, and that if she and her girlfriend arrived separately |
| 0:58.7 | and then made other students at prom uncomfortable, they would be allowed to, they would be required |
| 1:04.9 | to leave. They would be escorted from prom. Constance McMillan got in touch with the ACLU, which got in touch with the high school, |
| 1:12.4 | and then the school board decided to cancel the prom and blame the distraction that is Constance |
| 1:20.4 | McMillan. Now, this is a girl who's a lesbian out in high school, has a girlfriend. She's not |
| 1:26.7 | going to a high school in San Francisco or New York or Chicago. She is going to a lesbian out in high school has a girlfriend. She's not going to a high school in San |
| 1:27.6 | Francisco or New York or Chicago. She is going to a high school in a tiny county in Mississippi. |
| 1:34.6 | 23,000 people live in this entire county. And the school board canceled the prom and pointed |
| 1:40.9 | the finger at this lesbian student who has months more to go in school, |
| 1:46.0 | whose classmates are going to look at her every day and blame her for the cancellation of prom. |
| 1:52.6 | This school board has incited violence against this lesbian student. |
| 1:56.8 | And they say it's because of the recent distraction, the distraction being Constance McMillan's desire to be treated like any other student. |
| 2:05.3 | Do you know what's a distraction? |
| 2:06.5 | Itto Wamba County School District? |
| 2:09.1 | What's a distraction? |
| 2:10.1 | And I'm going to make sure it's a fucking distraction for you is are your bigoted dangerous actions? |
| 2:15.7 | This was not, you know, allowing her to come to prom with her date was not going |
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