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Savage Lovecast

Savage Love Episode 138

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 9 June 2009

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

First, a semantics discussion. Does the word "fetish" have to be so very dirty? A man in his 20s wonders if he can calm his brain down and curb his desire to bang every woman he sees. A woman complains that her lover won't go down on her, yells at her, and then whines that he doesn't want her to break up with him. When is the right time for a bisexual come out to his lovers? And a lot more. Call us at 206-302-2064. This episode was brought to you by Audible.com. Download a free audio book of your choice today at AudiblePodcast.com/Savage.

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0:41.5

Hey, Dan.

0:42.3

I just had a question about the term fetish.

0:47.2

We had a discussion, my friends and I, had a discussion about whether a fetish is necessarily sexual or not.

0:53.7

I thought it was. Someone said that they had an fetish is necessarily sexual or not. I thought it was.

0:55.7

Someone said that they had a fetish with books,

1:00.1

which I thought was more of an obsession.

1:03.5

I was just making sure that I was correct,

1:07.4

and was hoping that you would back me up on this,

1:10.2

that fetish is perhaps necessarily sexual as opposed to an obsession,

1:16.3

which is just, you know, an obsession.

1:19.8

Maybe one day when you grow up, you'll have a room of your own

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