Hey, this is Dan Savage, and you have downloaded on purpose or by accident, the Savage Love podcast.

Savage Love is my very skeezy sex advice column that runs all over the North American continent, Europe, Asia, all over the fucking place.

I usually, every once in a while, will occasionally write a column in a diminished state

and sort of a hangover or accidentally stoned.

I recently wrote a column.

And I have to preface this entire podcast with this statement.

I haven't slept for two days, not for any good reason,

not because I've taken up crystal math in my old age or anything, just because I have

insomnia and I haven't slept. So if my advice today sucks, it's because I'm completely exhausted.

And if you had the bad luck of having your call come up for a response on a podcast where I am admittedly

not firing on all cylinders. I apologize to you in advance. So if the advice sucks today,

I'm really fucking sorry about that. All right, let's go to the calls.

Hi, Dan. This is frustrated in Ohio. I'm a 25-year-old bisexual woman.

I'm single, but I enjoy sex a lot.

I date casually, so I feel I can, you know, have sex whatever I want.

The only problem is I am almost completely an orgasmic. I mean, I've never had no orgasm with

another person, and I think one that I might probably have one by myself. I've tried to

replicate the condition to try again, but I never have been able to produce the same results.

As I said before, I think I said before, I really enjoy sex a lot, so I feel like I'm missing out on the big part of it.

And I don't think there's anything physically wrong with me, so I'm worried about maybe

trust issues or anything like that.

I had a fine childhood, never molested anything like that.

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