Sam Jolman on Shame, Pornography, and Emotional Healing| 408
Dad Tired
Jerrad Lopes
5 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 17 June 2024
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins Jerrad to talk about the deeper story behind pornography, shame, and anger. He explains why behavior change is not enough. Jeremy helps men ask better questions about their pain. He shows how healing starts when we look at what drives the behavior, not just the behavior itself.
What You’ll hear:
• Why shame grows in silence
• How pornography often masks deeper wounds
• What anger reveals about your need for rest and relief
• How healing starts with kindness toward your own story
• Why confession is the beginning, not the end
• What your body might be telling you about your soul
Tune in to see why freedom takes more than willpower and what it means to let Jesus into your story.
Episode Resources:
- Book: The Sex Talk You Never Got by Sam Jolman
- Sam’s counseling and writing: samjolman.com
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- Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
- Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
- Support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
Transcript
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