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The Not Old - Better Show

SAINTS, SEX, SENTIMENT, AND CHOCOLATE: A SHORT HISTORY OF VALENTINE'S DAY

The Not Old - Better Show

Paul Vogelzang

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.7106 Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2026

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

SAINTS, SEX, SENTIMENT, AND CHOCOLATE: A SHORT HISTORY OF VALENTINE'S DAY

The Not Old Better Show, Smithsonian Associates Interview Series

💌 Valentine's Day wasn't always about roses and chocolates. In fact, it started with a goat. Yes, really.

In our latest Smithsonian Associates Interview Series episode on The Not Old Better Show, I had the pleasure of speaking with Smithsonian Associate Dr. Andrew Roth, cultural historian, prolific lecturer, and scholar-in-residence at the Jefferson Educational Society. Smithsonian Associate Dr. Andrew Roth will be appearing at Smithsonian Associates and you can find out more HERE, but we have Dr. Roth today to talk about Saints, Sex, and Chocolate: The Surprisingly Naughty History of Valentine's Day

Dr. Roth's talk, titled "Saints, Sex, Sentiment, and Chocolate: A Short History of Valentine's Day", is a tour-de-force through the strange, sensual, and surprisingly political roots of this global celebration of love. From pagan fertility rituals and medieval courtship to the Victorian explosion of mass-produced valentines, this episode asks: What are we really celebrating each February 14th?

For older adults, many of whom have witnessed several decades of changing cultural norms, this episode is especially resonant. It's not just about romance—it's about how we express care, connection, and desire across generations. And yes, we cover the juicy stuff, too.

So whether you're single, smitten, or somewhere in between, this conversation will make you think twice the next time you unwrap a heart-shaped chocolate.

💘 Happy Valentine's Day!

🎧 Listen here on Apple Podcasts:  https://notoldbettershow.info/NewEpisode

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Not Old Under Show, Thessonian Associates interview series on radio and podcast.

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The show covering all things health, wellness, culture, and more.

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The show for all of us who aren't old were better.

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Each week, we'll interview superstars, experts, and ordinary people,

0:27.3

doing extraordinary things, all related to this wonderful experience of getting better, not older.

0:33.4

Now here's your host, the award-winning Paul Vogelzang.

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I'm a bit of Now here's your host, the award-winning Paul Vogelzang.

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Oh, thank you so much.

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And if you're wondering, happy Valentine's Day.

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You know, there's a lot more to Valentine's Day than candy hearts, red roses,

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and awkward dinner reservations. And our guest today, Dr. Andrew Roth,

1:05.7

is here to prove it. From pagan rituals involving goat meat to Victorian lace cards, and million-dollar chocolate sales Valentine's Day has a pass. That's as strange as it is sweet. So how did a Roman fertility right

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turn into a holiday that now celebrates not only lovers, but teachers, grandkids, and even pets?

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And why does this unofficial day of affection still strikes such a chord across generations.

1:29.0

For those of us in life's second half, this story matters.

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Many of us have lived through decades of changing traditions, love letters, turning into

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emojis, handmade cards replaced by text messages.

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Dr. Roth, a Smithsonian Associate and Scholar, writer, and longtime observer of American culture,

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shows us how Valentine's Day is not just a commercial badanza, but a mirror reflecting how society

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and our relationships have evolved. Today's conversation is funny, surprising, and yes, even a little romantic.

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But more than anything, it reminds us that love, in all its messy, sentimental forms, never

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really goes out of style. With this wonderful music in the background that brings us right

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