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Jillian on Love

Safe Conversations: How to Talk to Your Partner with Harville & Helen

Jillian on Love

QCODE Media

Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2024

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Today, Jillian welcomes two very special guests—Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. As internationally renowned authors and relationship experts, Harville and Helen have spent decades helping people build healthier, more connected relationships, and today, we’re discussing their newest book, How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations. In a world that’s become increasingly divided and disconnected, their revolutionary approach to dialogue offers us a way back to empathy, understanding, and true connection. Be sure to check out their new book How to Talk with Anyone about Anything: The Practice of Safe Conversations. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hi there, it's Jillian, and I want to tell you about Jillian on Love Plus, your way to get even more

0:06.3

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0:13.4

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0:20.0

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0:22.8

and much more. Check out the link in the episode description for more information.

0:31.1

I'm thrilled. I can't even tell you. I really am truly thrilled to be speaking to both of you.

0:36.4

You are experts on love and on relationships

0:41.5

and on how to communicate. And communication is literally the glue, I think, that keeps

0:50.9

relationships of all kinds together. And I do believe that most relationships fall apart

0:57.4

because there's a breakdown in communication.

1:00.9

And so there's a lot of talk out there on the internet and ethos about safety in a relationship

1:10.0

and safe conversations is something that you speak about

1:13.5

in your book. What makes a conversation safe versus not safe? I heard a man giving a lecture on

1:22.5

love, a romantic attraction first stage. And the man was me, right me right yeah the man said the romantic attraction

1:32.4

everybody I figured it out that stage one of a marriage relationship the bliss the bliss yeah the bit may you be for every relationship. The bliss.

1:45.9

The bliss, yeah.

1:48.9

The bliss. May you be forever happy.

1:50.6

You are now married.

1:52.1

Happy ever after.

1:53.7

Exactly. The man had a chalkboard and he's put stage one, romantic attraction, stage two.

2:00.5

Everyone ends up, though, who's in stage one in stage two, which is the power struggle.

2:08.0

And he wrote power struggle, but if you learn a few things in the power struggle,

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