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Jillian on Love

Unmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Expectations: Where to Draw the Line in a Relationship

Jillian on Love

QCODE Media

Mental Health, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2024

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Jillian unpacks one of the most common yet complex relationship dilemmas: distinguishing between unmet needs and unrealistic expectations. Are you holding your partner to impossible standards, or are your needs simply not being met? Jillian takes a deep dive into the psychology of relationships, exploring how projections, attachment, and self-awareness play a role in our connections. She also answers a listener's heartfelt question about letting go of an unrequited love, offering actionable insights for reclaiming your peace and freedom. Pre-order Jillian's book "It Begins with You" at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected]  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hi there, it's Jillian, and I want to tell you about Jillian on Love Plus, your way to get even more

0:06.3

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0:13.4

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0:20.0

advice on all things dating and relationships,

0:22.8

and much more. Check out the link in the episode description for more information.

0:30.5

Hi there, this is Jillnan-Love, and I'm on a mission to teach people how to transform their

0:35.7

romantic relationships by first transforming the

0:38.6

relationship they have with themselves. So whether you are in a relationship, you're single or

0:43.7

heartbroken. I've got you covered. I'm Jillian Treki, certified relationship coach, author and

0:50.0

teacher with over 20 years experience helping people transform their relationship with

0:54.9

themselves.

0:56.1

Through their bodies, breaths, and minds, I have now coached and taught thousands of people

1:01.3

to become better versions of themselves and change the way they show up for and within

1:06.5

their love lives.

1:08.3

So I'm going to be discussing today the difference between having unrealistic expectations

1:14.0

in a relationship versus unmet needs. Like where do you draw the line? And I recently got this

1:20.5

question in a Q&A that I did on social media. And it's a question that I've gotten a lot of times.

1:28.2

And so I thought this is the best time to address this.

1:34.0

Because I've said this before, and I will say it again,

1:38.7

and I will keep saying it because it's a very, very important truth

1:42.4

to understand, which is, rarely do we end a relationship

1:47.5

with someone because we don't love them?

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