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The Virtual Couch

"Sacred Rest” Author Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith: How to Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, and Restore Your Sanity

The Virtual Couch

Tony Overbay LMFT

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

5643 Ratings

🗓️ 4 January 2024

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Did you know there are several different types of rest beyond just sleeping? Coming from a 'we don’t know what we don’t know' standpoint, today’s episode has the potential to be both a game-changer and life-changing as we unveil how identifying and fulfilling these diverse types of rest can revolutionize your health, happiness, and productivity. Tony Overbay, LMFT, interviews Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith about her book 'Sacred Rest: Recover Your Life, Renew Your Energy, Restore Your Sanity' (https://amzn.to/3TFp6GZ). They discuss the critical distinction between sleep and rest, amplified through Dr. Saundra’s 'Seven Types of Rest' framework. Dr. Saundra shares the seven types of rest she has found lacking in the lives of those she encounters in her clinical practice and research - physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, sensory, social, and creative - and explains why a deficiency in any one of these types of rest can have unfavorable effects on your health, happiness, relationships, creativity, and productivity. This episode highlights the importance of self-care and the need to become a personal health advocate. Dr. Saundra shares her experiences with burnout, which led to an emphasis on rest in her life. They discuss issues related to work-life balance and the over-reliance on screens and identify areas for enhancing rest that most people aren’t aware of. Then, Tony took Dr. Saundra’s 'rest quiz' and reviewed the results. You can find the Rest Quiz at https://www.restquiz.com/quiz/rest-quiz-test/00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections on Sleep01:31 Historical Figures and Their Sleep Patterns02:25 The Misconceptions and Judgments Around Sleep04:11 Personal Struggles with Sleep and Introduction of Guest05:21 Taking the Rest Quiz and Discussing the Results06:29 Introduction to Dr. Saundra Dalton and Her Work06:36 Debunking Common Myths About Sleep09:10 The Importance of Different Types of Rest11:14 The Impact of Sensory Overload on Rest12:49 The Role of Spiritual Rest in Overall Wellbeing14:14 The Importance of Emotional and Social Rest36:21 The Personal Journey Towards Understanding Rest37:17 Sharing the Secret to Happiness at Work37:22 Identifying Your Rest Deficit37:46 Taking the Rest Quiz38:44 Personal Journey and Motivation40:17 Navigating the Healthcare System40:43 Taking Control of Your Health42:39 Unexpected End of Interview43:06 Bonus: Taking the Rest Quiz Live01:08:38 Interpreting the Rest Quiz Results01:12:57 Conclusion and RecommendationsPlease follow Tony’s newest Instagram account for the Waking Up to Narcissism podcast https://www.instagram.com/wutnpod/ as well as Tony’s account https://www.instagram.com/tonyoverbay_lmft/ To learn more about Tony's upcoming re-release of the Magnetic Marriage course, his Pathback Recovery course, and more, sign up for his newsletter through the link at https://linktr.ee/virtualcouchSubscribe to Tony's latest podcast, "Waking Up to Narcissism Q&A - Premium Podcast," on the Apple Podcast App. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/waking-up-to-narcissism-q-a/id1667287384Go to http://tonyoverbay.com/workshop to sign up for Tony's "Magnetize Your Marriage" virtual workshop. The cost is only $19, and you'll learn the top 3 things you can do NOW to create a Magnetic Marriage. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com And visit Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=bSWcEQ

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0:00.0

Hey, everybody, come on and take a seat on the virtual couch.

0:22.3

Hey, everybody.

0:25.4

Welcome to episode 408 of the virtual couch.

0:27.7

Welcome to 2024 as well.

0:28.9

I am Tony Overbay.

0:29.8

I'm your host.

0:31.3

I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist.

0:39.3

But today, today I'll be playing the role of the lovable hypocrite because we are going to be talking about sleep. And I have done sleep episodes before, a sleep hygiene, and I say all the things that I'm supposed to say that we

0:45.0

need to be in a dark room and go without devices and don't eat a bag of Oreos before you go to bed.

0:50.8

And all of those things that I know are really good things to say, but we apparently do need

0:56.1

sleep. And it is important. I wanted to say blah, blah, blah. But seriously, though, over the last

1:01.6

few years, I could say I have been keenly aware, yet also owning the fact that I have set myself up

1:08.3

to be a person who just doesn't sleep a lot. And for some reason,

1:12.8

I think as a society, that sleep is this great differentiator, meaning that I rarely mention

1:17.9

how little I sleep, because I feel like people want to immediately let me know how bad that is

1:23.6

that I don't sleep far prior to maybe asking me about my own thoughts about my sleep,

1:29.5

or is that something that does impact or affect me?

1:32.1

So it's just a really interesting concept.

1:34.4

And I haven't slept much over the last 20 years.

1:38.5

It makes it sound like every few weeks I crawl into a cave and hang upside down and just pretend to sleep for a few hours. It's not

1:46.5

that. Of course, I sleep every night. I just believe what it feels like to be me or part of my own

1:50.9

implicit memory is somebody who just doesn't sleep much. Then if you happen to be like me, you have

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