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Heart of Dating

S6 Ep110: Freeing Yourself From Self-Hatred with Sami and Spencer Robbins

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 27 January 2021

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

Sami and Spencer discuss self-hatred, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and being a self critic. Kait also discusses loving your younger self and childhood wounds.  Sami and Spencer run a life coaching business/ministry called Alive & Free helping predominantly christian women heal from self-hatred, shame, and past pain so they can attract a godly man and step into a thriving marriage. They have worked with more than 2000 women and they are still on a process to experience unconditional love in every area of their lives and relationship.  Spencer and Sami met each other after attending the same ministry school and were married two years later. They had both individually been on an extensive healing process for years.  Sami started Alive & Free a few years ago walking women through 1-1 coaching and it quickly grew into a combination of services including group coaching, courses, and community. Their team is more than 30 people now and they are impacting more people than they ever thought possible. Although Sami and Spencer are leaders in their space, they are more involved in their own process and healing than they ever have been. They still hold onto the belief that they’re messy kids that are learning to let love in. Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://getfaithful.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Heart of Dating Podcast.

0:04.0

Hey, it's Kate.

0:07.0

I'm so glad you could join us this week as we try to entangle the ever so ambiguous world of dating as a Christian.

0:13.4

Over here on Heart of Dating, we get real,

0:15.6

as we answer some tough questions

0:17.2

and uncover transformative ways to approach Christian dating.

0:21.2

Oh, and you better believe we have some laughs along the way because last time I checked the

0:25.8

struggle is hashtag real you know what I'm saying? Now let's get to the heart of the matter.

0:39.0

Why hello, Heart of Dating Family, what's up you guys? I'm so excited to have you here today.

0:42.0

I say that every week, but I really, really mean it. I'm so excited and

0:46.5

thankful and grateful each and every time you guys choose to tune into the episode. We work really hard on these podcast episodes you guys and

0:54.6

really want to bring you the best possible content to help you in your singleness

0:58.2

and dating life. So thank you for being here and thank you for tuning in today.

1:02.0

You are not going to regret it because this conversation is absolutely fire.

1:07.0

All right, now, before we get into the conversation with Sammy and Spencer, our guest for today, I wanted to let you know just a really awesome

1:14.7

announcement. Are you ready?

1:16.7

We are launching a conference! Yes, you guys! That's right! The Singled Out Conference is launching February 6th, which is really, really

1:25.8

soon, and I'm going to be honest with you, it's going to be crazy, flipping, amazing.

1:30.6

You're not going to want to miss out on this. We have an absolutely stacked lineup.

1:34.5

Okay, we have Michelle Williams, Lisa Bavir, Alec Bavir, Dr. Henry Cloud, uh-huh.

1:40.9

We have Sadie and Christian, Robertson-Huff. We have Dr Darius Daniels,

1:46.1

Chad Beach, J.P. Pacluda, Marianne Jordan, and so many others. We have over 25 speakers in the house for you guys at this

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