S4 E33 - People Pleasing, Codependency, and Finding Authenticity with Mark Groves
The Cure for Chronic Pain with Nicole Sachs, LCSW
Nicole Sachs, LCSW
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🗓️ 22 August 2025
⏱️ 51 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Cure for Chronic Pain podcast with me, Nicole Sacks. |
| 0:07.6 | You are here. |
| 0:13.3 | Hello, my friends. |
| 0:15.0 | This is Nicole, and you have reached my podcast, The Cure for Chronic Pain. |
| 0:18.5 | Welcome to it. |
| 0:20.2 | Happy to be here with you guys today. I was just |
| 0:23.9 | re-listening to an awesome conversation I had with Mark Groves last year when we were leading up |
| 0:32.7 | to my book launch for Mind Your Body. And something he said really got me. |
| 0:40.5 | And the quote is, if we don't have access to the word no, then that means our yes is not |
| 0:47.4 | truly a yes. |
| 0:49.4 | And I've been working with people and boundaries and family issues and authenticity versus |
| 0:56.1 | attachment for years and years, both in the work that you guys know I do and in my private |
| 1:01.5 | practice for many years. |
| 1:03.1 | And I really have never heard it put just that way and I really appreciated the simplicity |
| 1:09.6 | with which Mark explain that because the thing about |
| 1:13.9 | boundaries is that we really are raised to believe that boundaries are mean, that boundaries |
| 1:23.6 | push people away, that if we aren't overly concerned all the time with what other people |
| 1:29.8 | think and feel and the codependency which goes along with that, that we're not being as good |
| 1:36.6 | a mother, partner, child, co-worker, friend, then we should be being. And so it's really interesting. |
| 1:45.5 | I know one of the things that Mark and I discuss in this conversation is autoimmune disease, |
| 1:50.0 | and the fact that there's a huge correlation between autoimmune disease diagnoses and people who feel like they don't align with the way they're living their lives. And you know, this is |
| 2:03.0 | something that the research is evolving and I will always keep coming back to in these conversations |
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