I realized that I needed help when it was January 1st, 2015, so at this point, nearly two months after it broke up with him, and he started threatening my naked pictures on Twitter.

That's when I realized, I don't know if they really seems to be stalked, but I realized, okay, I don't know what to do at this point. I can't handle this on my own anymore.

I'm Jamie Bebe.

And I'm Jake Duptula. On today's episode of Stalking, we're Chanuku Norma Buster, a victim's right advocate who turned her own stalking experience into a fight for stalking survivors.

While attending college, Norma broke up with her boyfriend of two years to see other people. He told her that she was making a mistake, then began sending her cryptic and manipulative messages lying about being physically attacked and deaths in his family.

After she cut off contact with him, he told family and friends that she was out of control and tried to stage an intervention.

Later, he posted a profile impersonating her on PornHub with her name, address, phone number, and private nude photos.

She went to the police, but was sent away for not having enough evidence. Norma's mother found Carrie Goldberg, a cyber rights lawyer who told Norma it wasn't her fault.

Carrie Fawn on behalf of Norma to obtain a lifetime restraining order to protect her. Norma, thank you for joining us today.

Thank you for having me.

Of course. Can you tell us a little bit about where you grew up?

I grew up in Nothin, New Jersey, which is suburb to small town about 25 minutes from the New York City.

What did you want to be when you grew up?

For that change, not a lot. I really never expected to be in a possession I am now and never even knew that my job existed.

Growing up, I had been dancing for 10 years from the age of four to 14, thinking I was going to be a dancer.

That in high school kind of lost interest, decided I wanted to do fashion.

And then I went to the fashion institute of technology in New York City for advertising and marketing communications with expectation.

I don't know, do something in either PR, communications, marketing. But during my time at FIT, I realized that I wanted to do something a little bit more.

That felt a little bit more fulfilling and meaningful in a personal way.

It makes some kind of positive impact on the world.

And so when this happened to me, it kind of gave me that direction and showed me a career path that I didn't know was possible.

What was college like?

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