S21E3: Chaotic Singles Party: Inside Edition w/ Cassidy Davis

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 2 September 2025

⏱️ 74 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

What happens when you can't seem to find any good people to date? Your app dates are blah and it feels like you just aren't meeting the right people IRL. We're talking to Cassidy Davis, the creator of Chaotic Singles Party, of how she went from tragically single (her words!) to meeting her finance by taking matters into her own hands by inviting 65 guys off Tinder for a house party – and then making these into recurring events. We're discussing how we can all live by the 'if you make it, they will come' mentality (even if you don't want to do something exactly like this), ways to actually connect at in-person events, and why it's a good thing to be a little chaotic in your love life.

Learn more about Cassidy and Chaotic Singles party follow @chaoticsinglesparty and visit https://chaoticsinglesparty.com/

Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/

HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.

WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ A big thank you to our sponsor Saily by NordVPN: "🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code DATEABLE at checkout. Download Saily app or go to to https://saily.com/dateable ⛵"

Our Sponsors:
* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns.

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donations

Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	There are so many things to stress about when it comes to international travel. And with my upcoming
0:04.4	Europe trip, you know what I'm not stressing about? Finding Wi-Fi or getting scammed on overpriced
0:09.7	SIM cards. I'm using Saly, the ESIM app that keeps you connected in over 200 countries without
0:15.8	the airport hassle or those ridiculous roaming fees. It's made by the folks behind NordVPN. So privacy and security
0:22.8	covered. You install Saly once, pick a plan, and you're good to go, whether you're hopping
0:27.5	countries or just need solid data from the moment you land. And bonus, Saly has a built-in ad
0:32.9	blocker that can save you up to 28% on mobile data. That's more scrolling and less wasting data.
0:39.6	So if you're traveling soon, do this now.
0:41.7	Download the Sayley app in your app store and use the code datable at checkout for 15%
0:47.2	off your first data plan.
0:48.9	That's D-A-T-E-A-B-L-E for 15% off.
0:52.7	Stay connected, stay smart, get Sayley. Hi, I'm U-E-S-E for 15% off. Stay connected. Stay smart.
0:55.0	Get Saly.
0:56.1	Hi, I'm U-E-S-U.
0:57.5	And I'm Julie Craft-Chic.
0:59.1	We're active daters turned dating insiders.
1:01.6	Here to dive into everything, modern dating and relationships.
1:05.3	Welcome to Datable.
1:14.6	Hello, friends. Welcome back to another episode of Datable.
1:17.2	Are you ready to get chaotic?
1:19.4	Oh, yeah.
1:21.0	Always.
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.