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S2 Ep137: The Truth About Getting The Man I THOUGHT I Always Wanted ft. Rosa Acosta

LOVERS by shan

LOVERS by shan

Sexuality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Health & Fitness

55.5K Ratings

🗓️ 17 September 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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What does it mean to choose love on your own terms? How do our values, self-worth, and cultural expectations shape the way we show up in relationships?

In this conversation, entrepreneur, fitness model, and actress Rosa Acosta shares her perspective on redefining what relationships can look like when you step away from society’s scripts. She reflects on leaving behind relationships that don’t serve both partners, questioning inherited scripts about men and women, and what it takes to create intimacy outside of convention.

This is a dialogue about love as partnership, the courage to release what no longer fits, and the art of rewriting our own story.

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Cossa Mia: https://www.instagram.com/cossamia/

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0:00.0

Well, here's a triggering question. What are you bringing to the table? I love that question. First of all, do you have a table? Often people to ask you that question are just random people on the internet. What do you bring to the table? First of all, I didn't know you had a table, but to your table, nothing. If he's balding, the receding line kind of like pulls a little more to the front when they start being nice.

0:22.6

You know, if they're not tall, when they start treating you nicely, the energy is giving 6-4, 6-5.

0:28.4

Welcome.

0:29.0

Rosa Acosta, fitness models, and owner of Kusamia workout line.

0:32.6

Actress on the show, Johnson, and hip-hop legend.

0:35.9

Sometimes what we deem a good father is actually a mediocre mom.

0:42.3

You have no domestic skills.

0:45.3

You don't want to contribute with the parenting and you also have any emotional intelligence

0:52.3

and thought that because he was the provider,

0:56.3

and he was a very good provider, that his pleasure was the only one that mattered.

1:01.3

I tossed the list and say, I want the universe to send me how good it can get.

1:09.2

I love this whole Pussy Corner, the whole theme.

1:11.6

This one is the little big book of Pussy, so all kinds of different pussies.

1:16.6

She's smoking with her pussy.

1:18.6

Yeah, I saw that in Jamaica.

1:19.6

I saw that in Thailand.

1:21.6

I need to learn how to do those things.

1:24.6

Why?

1:25.6

I could make a lot of money on Onlyfans if I could smoke a cigarette

1:29.6

with my vagina. What do you want to talk about today? One of my favorite topics right now is how

1:37.3

I'm being really trying to learn how to unlearn, you know, all the misogyny and the patriarchal like ideas that I have deeply like

1:49.2

you know in me because from I come from a place like where culturally is like very very old school

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