Everyone intrinsically knows that like spontaneous sex is good. It's just that, you know, there comes a time where life is so crazy, it has to be kind of robotic.

You said, I hope one day I can heal in you, the part of you that gets hurt and looks for all the other ways in which you've been wronged.

Yeah.

As soon as I enter into a state of vulnerability, I'm almost like searching for other ways, you know, in which I've been harmed. And then you end up feeling like you're having to audition for me or re-prove that you're a good guy again. Yeah. I have let go of the idea that we have to grow. You know, is that a bad thing right now,

given where we're at in our life,

where how old our kids are?

Ooh, I have jealousy on here as a challenge.

Okay.

Okay, jealousy.

I'm bringing up your,

what do you,

wait, how do you want?

You're just going to sit inside?

You're just going to end it on jealousy?

Welcome back.

And I say that in a strange way because we have been rolling along together, but something that I've learned about my life is that

the summers, I'm here, but I'm not really here.

I just, it's a fascinating thing to go through now as a parent because you observed it before

of like, why does the world kind of seem to slow down during this time and now I'm in it.

And there's joyful parts of that and

then there are some deeply challenging parts of that as so many of your usual

routines and responsibilities get left by the wayside it can leave people

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