S2 / E82 Deciding Fate: Stalking Sally

Strictly Stalking

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True Crime, Talk Radio

4.2 • 2.5K Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2021

⏱️ 54 minutes

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**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised.** After being stalked by a guy she met online, Sally turned to a therapist to make a controversial decision that could impact her life forever. While attending college, Sally began dating a guy she met in a chat room. She gave him a chance and even though she told him she didn't want anything serious, he began obsessing over her. He drove past her house, called her constantly, and even found her amongst the crowd at an out-of-town concert. When she broke up with him and started seeing someone else, her ex pretended to be a girl asking personal questions to the new guy she was seeing. After the breakup, she attended a baby shower and carpooled with him...and after the event, he forced himself on her. She took a unique and controversial step that would bring a shocking outcome for both of them. Check Out Our Patreon: www.patreon.com/strictlystalking Instagram: Strictly Stalking https://www.instagram.com/strictlystalkingpod Jaimie Beebe https://www.instagram.com/feathergirl77 Jake Deptula https://www.instagram.com/jaked3000 Please consider supporting the companies that support us! Start feeling better with a single message. Match with a licensed therapist when you go to talkspace.com and get $100 off your first month with the promo code STALKING. For listeners of the show, Girlfriend Collective is offering first time customers $25 off purchases of $100 or more when you go to girlfriend.com/STALKING. So say goodbye to cramps. Put sex back on the table. And lend Mother Nature a hand. Go to FLEXFITS.com/STALKING and use code STALKING for 20% off Flex Disc Starter Kits-or 10% off your first Flex Cup-PLUS free U.S. shipping! When you're ready to undo some damage, hit the reset button with the OUAI Detox Shampoo. Go to THEOUAI.com and use code STALKING to get 15% off your entire purchase. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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0:00.0	The world is slowly trying to get back to normal.
0:02.0	Although, after the year we've had, I'm not even sure I know what normal looks like anymore.
0:05.6	I know what you mean. I'm looking forward to everything starting back up,
0:08.8	but also I feel kind of overwhelmed.
0:10.7	You're not alone. A lot of people are overwhelmed by everything going on in the world right now.
0:14.7	Well, that's why we recommend Talkspace. We all need help, advice, or someone to just talk to,
0:19.1	and Talkspace is the place. Start feeling better with a single message.
0:22.7	Match with the license therapist when you go to Talkspace.com and get $100
0:26.7	off your first month with the promo code stocking. That's $100 off when you use code stocking at Talkspace.com.
0:34.4	Oftentimes, stocking victims turn the tables on their stalkers and end up monitoring their stalkers,
0:38.8	and not because they want to be close to their stalkers, but they want to make sure they know what
0:42.3	they're up to at every second. Sometimes there's a temporary reprieve from being stocked when
0:47.2	the stalker goes to jail or you get a restraining order, or they start stocking someone else,
0:53.3	but it's rare for a stalker to just stop stalking. Sally didn't know where to turn or what to do
0:59.7	when she realized that she was being stalked by this guy. So she took a totally unique and
1:06.4	controversial step. Every stalking survivor deals with the trauma being stalked in a different way.
1:11.8	We're not here to judge. We're here to provide the platform for stalking survivors to come forward
1:16.0	and share their stories. I'm not her. I'm not going to judge her. I'm going to let her tell her
1:19.8	story. I think what we're trying to hone in on is to widen your pool of support. Don't rely
1:25.5	just on a therapist. Don't rely just on the cops. Don't rely just on your friends. You need to
1:32.0	raise awareness about what you're going through and the trauma that's happening to you in order
1:36.0	to get adequate help. I know that he is a nice guy. I know he wasn't showing me his best self,
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