S17E15: Healing Your Intimacy Wounds w/ Andre Lazarus

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2023

⏱️ 80 minutes

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We're getting intimate, y'all with Intimacy Coach Andre Lazarus as we talk about how past sexual experiences – or inexperiences – may be holding you back from having the sex life you've always wanted. We discuss how to take back control of anything that's caused you shame, ways to feel more confident about your sexual desires, and why it's entirely possible to live a more connected life with deeper intimacy. Trigger Alert: We touch briefly on sexual traumas including rape, assault, and more. Follow Andre on Instagram @comingcloserwithandre and check out his work: https://coming-closer.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50 HoneyLove: Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com with the code DATEABLE BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik. We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. datable. How Hello everyone, welcome back to post- Thanksgiving madness here at Datable.
0:21.5	How full are you, Julian? Still full. I feel like I was gone forever, even though it was a week. I was back in Boston for the holidays.
0:28.8	Yeah, you know, I think like when you're not in your own bed it does feel like a bit right but it was
0:35.1	nice how was your holidays it was very non-eventful I went to a brunch with my
0:41.7	parents on Thanksgiving, but at brunch, we went to brunch at 10.45 a.m.
0:46.6	by the way, okay, on Thanksgiving day. The people that sat next to us were on a first date.
0:51.3	On Thanksgiving? Isn't that awkward? I mean, I guess, like if you're home... on Thanksgiving.
0:52.6	Isn't that awkward?
0:53.6	I mean I guess like if you're home for the holiday,
0:56.0	I mean you have nothing to do, you know?
0:57.8	I heard their whole story.
0:59.1	They're coworkers exploring a possible romantic connection and the guy was so awkward he gave her his whole
1:06.9	SDI results like he's like I get tested for a chlamydia on a quarterly basis and she's like why why do you need to do that
1:15.6	That's awkward I can just picture this Thanksgiving like UA's parents are there trying to have like a nice meal
1:21.9	Yes and then U.A.
1:23.4	Air is like in the conversation of the people next to them. Well, he was so loud. My dad's like,
1:28.8	what's Clamidia? Oh my God, oh boy.
1:33.0	Ask Google Dad.
1:35.0	Oh my God, okay, your whole family was eavesdropping because they were that much.
1:39.0	That's crazy.
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