#brunchtalk: Is It A Date Or A Vibe Check?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 3 December 2023

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Dating can be hard (and expensive!) when you're dating multiple people at once, never sure if that first date will amount to anything more. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing balancing all the planning aspects of modern dating with putting your best foot forward for each new person you meet. We discuss the differences between first dates and meet and greets, how to do a "vibe check" without killing the vibe, and ways to plan more intentional lower-budget first dates that still wow. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3 at findingyourperson.com Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50 Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shoe and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:02.8	We're active daters turn dating sociologist.
0:05.4	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.0	Welcome to the dateable podcast. podcast. We are here to help you on your dating journey and helping you answer your
0:25.8	burning dating questions to the best of our ability.
0:30.3	And you know, hopefully we'll give you the answer you want, but if you want to go deeper,
0:34.7	you can always go to brunch with your friends, tell them about this, and keep the conversation
0:40.3	going. Yes, a lot of these questions are hot discussion points. There could be a lot of different
0:45.7	opinions about these, but Julie and I are going to answer these questions from a personal point of view from our own experience,
0:51.7	but also from our almost eight years of
0:54.0	doing this podcast where we've talked to thousands of daters in relationships
0:59.1	out of relationships newly single single for 10 years like we've talked to people from all stages of their
1:06.2	love lives so we can gather that information and be the dating sociologist that we are so
1:12.0	hopefully we're equipped to answer this question.
1:14.7	You sure are. For this show. I think people will trust us enough at this point. The question is,
1:21.6	can a first date just be a vibe check?
1:25.0	Love this question and this is one that you could really debate all day.
1:29.0	Yep.
1:30.0	So our listener that wrote in said,
1:32.0	I wholeheartedly believe dating is metaphorically the highway to an exclusive relationship.
1:38.0	Everything a man does no matter how miniscule furthers the car along the road.
1:43.2	This was written by a heteroban, putting that out there.
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