S17E11: The Reason They May Not Be Making Moves

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 8 November 2023

⏱️ 73 minutes

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Maybe you've experienced that great date only to be confused when it didn't result in a kiss goodnight – or anything more. Are they just not that into you....or could it be something else? We’re discussing the different ways we all experience desire as we chat with Mike about being a hetero man who leans more on the submissive spectrum. We discuss the differences between responsive and spontaneous desire, how gender roles perpetuate stereotypes, and why we need to better understand our partners instead of making assumptions. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateable Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateable Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Modern Fertility: Get $20 off your fertility test when you go to modernfertility.com/dateable. Bearaby: Get your hand-nit weighted blankets @mybearaby or bearaby.com Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewey Schu and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. Hey friends, welcome back for another week of dateable.
0:19.4	We are entering into a very active dating season and this is probably why we're getting so many
0:27.5	messages and emails in because you are all very actively dating,
0:33.0	which is saying a lot.
0:34.2	And I think this episode will also help you all
0:37.3	navigate this very active dating season.
0:40.4	Yeah, this season is always interesting
0:42.4	because I feel like we're like getting closer to the holidays, right?
0:45.7	Thanksgiving is always a big one of who's gonna ask about my relationship status,
0:50.3	how do I spin if I'm dating somewhat, I'm single and then I feel like it kind of dies out when you approach like Christmas because everyone's just preoccupied like November to December. It's like the holiday rush so it's almost like this is like the last
1:04.3	hurrah the last chance to get in there before the holiday madness starts and then of
1:09.7	course in January is you know the peak season new madness new year new dating life it's weird that the cycle just repeats itself every yeah like you know what's coming but then it somehow catches you by surprise.
1:22.6	It's like daylight savings.
1:23.6	Everyone's always like, oh my God,
1:25.1	got an hour back.
1:26.2	Well, yeah, this happens every year.
1:28.8	But also, at the same time, it's like the weather's
1:31.4	getting a little cooler. You know know you're not as busy with plans
1:35.7	outdoors so you want to snuggle up with someone totally understandable.
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