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Heart of Dating

S16 Ep279: How to Build Healthy Honest Emotional Intimacy in Dating with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill

Heart of Dating

That Sounds Fun Network

Christianity, Relationships, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality

4.82.1K Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Today we’re joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill as they walk us through the power of the Connection Codes, sharing their story of overcoming emotional disconnection in marriage and giving us practical tools for naming and processing our emotions in dating and relationships! Download the core emotion wheel here! http://connectioncodes.co/heart-of-dating Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating   Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true  . . . . .  Check out this week's sponsors: Better Help: This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

If you're in traffic right now, look around. You'll see empty car seats. Nobody loves sitting in traffic. We don't. And neither do ESSO. Every filled passenger seat in this jam could mean one less car on the road. And ESO want to help with that. Carpooling could mean less traffic. Split fuel bills. And new friends. Are we friends? I added you on social media. We don't have social media. We're bobbleheads. No, I've got social media.

0:23.6

More journeys made together. That's thoughtful driving. S.O.celso.com. We're not responsible for our emotions. We know this now, and we can do the boring discussion of the research on that. We literally cannot control.

0:38.3

And I grew up here in that. You need to control your emotions. You can't control feeling emotions.

0:44.4

Right. But you can control the behavior. Right. What you do with them or how you feed them.

0:49.2

The emotion goes somewhere, like it or not, it goes somewhere. And we'd love to think, oh, nope, nope,

0:54.6

I just dissipated into the atmosphere. No, it didn't. I just didn't even realize I was dealing,

0:59.9

actually living in a lot of fear. I just didn't know it, which is so unhealthy. And so

1:05.2

it's realizing that these emotions are not negative or positive. They're messengers. They're simply messengers.

1:12.3

I've experienced some loneliness, I would say, just with how social you are. And I think it's a

1:17.8

beautiful thing. I've just at times felt lonely that I don't know if you want to spend time with me

1:24.7

as much as maybe other people.

1:38.0

Yeah. if you want to spend time with me as much as maybe other people. As Christians, it can be hard to share our feelings and emotions, and this problem is only

1:43.0

exacerbated in dating and relationship.

1:46.0

Should I share this? Should I not share this? Is this too much? Am I too much? Why do they shut

1:51.1

down when I share this? Why am I shutting down when they're sharing with me? How do I listen and maybe not

1:56.7

agree, but validate? That is the biggest challenge in Christian dating, I'd say, is

2:01.8

healthily communicating your emotions and also receiving somebody else's. Fortunately, today,

2:07.1

we have an amazing guest, guest couple, Glenn and Phyllis with Connection Codes. Thank you

2:13.6

guys so much for joining us. Yeah, we love it. Yeah, it's our just honor.

2:19.5

We're so excited to be with you guys.

2:21.3

I've heard about your ministry for so long through different people.

2:26.1

And so it's kind of like surreal to be here and to be sitting with you guys.

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