It's not that, oh, hey, we're at the same level spiritually.

It's the idea of are we of the same kind?

I actually think there's a lot of attraction to someone who spiritually is equally yoked.

Because you look at their faith and it's not just they're cultivating it, but there's areas in their life where they really challenge you.

People are grasping for, is this it or is this not it?

Because let's be honest, the singles have it

very hard right now in this world of endless options. Yes. And I mean, the illusion. The illusion.

Yeah. So if God's word is not the highest authority in your life, when it comes to, to your point,

JJ, what decisions you're making where you're

going then you're doomed to run around in circles right what hard conversation are you not having

because you're scared that if you give this to god he won't give it back you won't give it back

yeah it's so good.

What happens when you're more spiritually mature than the person you're dating?

What happens when they're more spiritually mature than you?

What does spiritually more mature even mean?

What's missional dating? These are the kind of questions we get on a daily basis. And I think we talk a lot about it, but it's not really ever clearly defined. Yeah, well, what if they're a Baptist and you're

charismatic? Can you date in that situation? That's my favorite one. So we're going to unpack that today. Unfortunately not, we don't have a Baptist and a charismatic, but we kind of do in some ways here with us today. Welcome to the show, Addison and Julie Bavir. Let's go. Come on. I'm so happy to be here. So we are doing a relationship goal series, right, JJ? Yeah, we are. I mean, it's kind of funny. We said the Baptist and the Charismatic because in some ways, your personalities are like a lot of truth, the sexy theologian that Julie likes to call them and spirit led. Now you're about to be, you know, you get your, not degree, but approved to be a yoga instructor. Oh, no. You can't say that. Fine. Why is that so bad? I think it's awesome. Dude, I think it's amazing about it. Don't see. Dude, I think it's amazing. I don't know. I don't know. So, sexy. And we have Julie, who you're maybe a little bit more like Holy Spirit led in that sense.

You have some charismatic personality, kindness.

You only listen to Bethel.

But yeah, what did you guys say?

You almost embody a little bit of those spirits.

Yeah, I would say there's a lot of truth to that.

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