S14E6: Securing Your Anxious Attachment w/ Kirstie Taylor

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Social Sciences, Science

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2022

⏱️ 69 minutes

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Anxious daters! It's time to finally feel more secure in your love life as we chat with Kirstie Taylor about navigating the anxious attachment style and finally having the love life you want. We discuss why so many of us struggle with dating, how to decode when it's the anxiety talking or the wrong fit, and what happens when you can start to shift your beliefs about love. Follow Kirstie @kirstietaylorr and check out her book 'What I Wish I Knew about Love' Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. SugarBreak: Visit www.Sugarbreak.com/DATEABLE and use the code DATEABLE for 15% off. T Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:28.1	What's up, friends? Welcome to another episode of the
0:35.0	dateable podcast where we really dig into modern dating and help you all try to
0:39.7	figure out why the shit is happening the way it is and today our episode is all about
0:45.2	becoming more secure in dating especially in early dating I feel like I get really
0:49.7	self-conscious and anxious in early dating and it totally fucks with me.
0:54.0	Yes, you and all of our listeners. I think anxiety was the biggest challenge that I faced
1:01.2	when dating for sure and I think this topic is going to
1:05.5	resonate with so many people because you know it's hard in today's world not to
1:10.4	feel anxious while you're dating and I have a lot of thoughts about attachment theory like
1:16.2	it's been such a hot topic I remember like one of my friends telling me how she stayed up to like 4 a.m.
1:22.3	talking to another one of our friends about how
1:24.2	fuck they were that they were fearful avoidance and that they were screwed in the world of
1:28.8	dating. So I think it's really great to like give a foundation of how you operate and how you might be
1:34.7	like predispositioned but I also feel like sometimes people take it to be like there's
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