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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: What To Do When They Don't Text Back

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Social Sciences, Science

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2022

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

We're diving into the worst.feeling.ever when you send that text out only to be left on read 4 hours later. What do you do? How do you handle it? And why can't you just enjoy freaking brunch without compulsively looking at your phone? We've been here ourselves and we got you on our first installment of Dateable brunch talk coming as a bonus every Sunday. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. SugarBreak: Visit www.Sugarbreak.com/DATEABLE and use the code DATEABLE for 15% off. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls one of the top 10

0:06.8

podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes,

0:16.0

and first moves to first loves.

0:17.8

I'm your host, U.S.U.

0:19.3

Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:22.0

You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick

0:25.2

as we explore this crazy dateable world.

0:31.0

Hello everyone, welcome to our first episode of Brunch Talk by the

0:36.8

dateable podcast where we're gonna dig into some of the questions that you all

0:41.0

have been sending in and we finally have the time and space to answer those questions.

0:46.7

So let's start with our first one.

0:48.2

You ready for this Julie?

0:49.3

Oh yeah, this is a meaty brunch topic if you've had one.

0:53.0

Yeah, get those mamoses ready guys.

0:55.0

I've been at so many brunches where this pops up.

1:00.0

What do I do when they don't text back and I freak out?

1:05.0

To just give a little bit of background.

1:08.0

When they don't get text back within three to four hours of me texting them,

1:12.0

I tend to freak out and make up stories in my head.

1:15.2

How do I stop doing that?

1:17.1

Oh my God how many times have you shared that text thread at the broach table asking

1:22.3

what's going on.

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