S14E1: Who's Showing Up For Your Date? w/ Lair Torrent

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 23 February 2022

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

So much of attraction is about the energy, the vibe you bring to dates. And the big question is...how are you showing up? We're diving in with Lair Torrent, LMFT to explore the many sides of ourselves and how they come out while dating (and well into relationships). We discuss how mindfulness can help us become aware of our blind spots, why dating trauma can trigger certain sides of us, and how we can bring that big d(ating) energy. Follow Lair @lairtorrentholistictherapist and check out Lair's work at http://www.lairtorrent.com/ and get a copy of his book 'The Practice of Love' today. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Kensington Books: Kensington’s newest title YOU CAN RUN by Rebecca Zanetti. You can find YOU CAN RUN wherever books are sold or visit kensingtonbooks.com Murad Skincare: Go to Murad.com and enter the code DATEABLE for 20% off and free shipping for orders of $60 or more Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Kraft chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	What's up, dateables? Official start of season 14. I cannot believe it. Season 14 here we come.
0:41.3	I want to take clips of every time Julie says I cannot believe it's
0:45.0	season block because she can't she just like finds it all very unbelievable like
0:49.8	Julie listen it's season 14. I know but sometimes I do find it unbelievable that we've been doing this.
0:55.8	I actually got corrected that it's only been six years, not seven years.
1:00.9	We did the math wrong.
1:02.1	Oh, we did? Oh, well, we're six going on seven. Six years is still quite an accomplishment. Yes. And it was Valentine's Day. We launched back in the day.
1:11.0	Yeah, I actually looked through my old photos of that very first recording we did.
1:17.0	Oh my goodness.
1:19.0	In my studio apartment.
1:21.0	And we had like seven people crammed in with a live audience.
1:25.0	They were all eating like pretzels.
1:26.5	And that would never happen again.
1:28.0	But at least we can keep the show going.
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