BONUS: Date the Way You Want To Be Dated

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2022

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

What if we all took a pledge to stop ghosting and to commit to dating the way we wanted to be dated? Before we head into Season 14, let's band together to stop dating from going down a dark path by starting a new dating manifesto. We discuss problematic dating terms like ghosting, zombie-ing, roaching, benching, and breadcrumbing, why these dating behaviors are happening in today's dating world, and how we can start to replace these terms with good dating behaviors. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Murad Skincare: Go to Murad.com and enter the code DATEABLE for 20% off and free shipping for orders of $60 or more BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE ZocDoc: Download the app at zocdoc.com/dateable and download the ZocDoc app for free to search for a top-rated doctor Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:32.1	Hello friends and lovers and datables. Welcome to another episode of the
0:37.5	dateable podcast. We bring you another bonus episode with Julie and I where we feel very passionate about this topic.
0:46.2	We think a change is needed and a change is a coming.
0:50.8	This is the year.
0:51.9	This is it, y'all, because we're headed down a really bad path of dating if we keep doing the shit that we've been doing.
0:58.0	And it all goes back to the beginning of the pandemic.
1:01.0	If you listen to some of our earlier episodes at the beginning of the
1:03.3	beginning of the pandemic.
1:04.5	We were so hopeful.
1:06.0	We were being romantic.
1:08.0	We were being respectful.
1:09.0	We were being so generous with our feelings and our emotions and now we're all just bitter old
1:15.8	bitches that's how I feel at least. You know I think the West Elm Caleb
1:20.5	saga really did shed some light on how much we've just accepted bad behaviors.
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