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How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

S14, Ep2 How To Fail: Minnie Driver

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

Sony Music

Society & Culture

4.89.4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2022

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Ugh. Today's guest is just SO GOOD. Minnie Driver, actress, musician and writer, was nominated for an Academy Award for Good Will Hunting and later starred in TV shows such as Will & Grace and Starstruck. Her (brilliant) debut book is called Managing Expectations and is described as a ‘tell-most memoir’. In her own words, it’s about how things not working out actually worked out in the end.
She joins me to talk about her failures in acting, her failure to get an agent or to perform a convincing orgasm at an audition (a crash course in sexism in the industry), her run-ins with Harvey Weinstein, her experiences in the fakery of Hollywood and how that affected her mental health, and her self-perceived failure to get married. We also touch on the death of her beloved mother, becoming a single parent herself and what it means to be a fully-realised woman in her 50s. I adored this conversation - Minnie is so wise and eloquent and has really, truly spent time thinking about what life means. As such, she's the most perfectly imperfect guest.

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Minnie's memoir-ish, Managing Expectations is out now: https://www.waterstones.com/book/managing-expectations/minnie-driver/2928377083793

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How To Fail With Elizabeth Day is hosted by Elizabeth Day, produced by Naomi Mantin and Chris Sharp. To contact us, email [email protected]

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Social Media:

Elizabeth Day @elizabday

How To Fail @howtofailpod

Minnie Driver @driverminnie

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to How to Fail with Elizabeth Day. The podcast that celebrates the things

0:19.2

that haven't gone right. This is a podcast about learning from our mistakes and understanding

0:25.5

that why we fail ultimately makes us stronger because learning how to fail in life actually means

0:32.2

learning how to succeed better. I'm your host, author and journalist Elizabeth Day and every

0:38.4

week I'll be asking a new interviewee what they've learned from failure. My guest today was one

0:45.2

of the breakout stars of 90's cinema. She was Benny in Circle of Friends, starred opposite John

0:51.6

Qsack in Gross Point Blank and was nominated for an Oscar for Goodwill Hunting. Her later career

0:58.2

took her to television where she's acted with Eddie Isard in the Riches, had a recurring role in

1:03.0

Will & Grace and appears in a string of hit shows including Modern Love and Starstruck. She was

1:09.7

always unique in the airbrushed superficiality of Hollywood. Her beauty was not blonde or bland.

1:16.7

Instead, she arrived on the scene with a mass of brown curls, unapologetic freckles and a straightforward

1:22.8

compulsion to tell the truth. I felt like the last thing I'd actually intended was to become an actress

1:29.4

she writes in her new memoir. Everything subsequently was luck and circumstance, a currency's carved by

1:36.0

the agency of something other than me. She was born in London but raised in Barbados with her older

1:42.6

sister until the age of seven. Her mother was not married to her father because he already had a wife,

1:49.1

an early taste of the complexity of human relationships that was to stand her in good stead.

1:55.7

She was called Amelia but it was her sister Kate who gave her the nickname Mini. It's stuck and

2:01.3

she's now known as Mini Driver. It's under this name that she will be publishing her debut book

2:07.6

Managing Expectations. Described as a tellmost memoir, it is truthful, funny and wise.

2:15.4

In her own words, it's about how things not working out actually worked out in the end. As such,

2:22.6

she could not be more perfect for this podcast Mini Driver. Welcome to How to Fail.

2:29.1

It's very nice to be here. I am failure incarnate.

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