S13E2: How to Fail at Being a F*ckboy w/ Kane Holloway

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2021

⏱️ 88 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you get divorced during covid, start using apps for the first time, and do anything you can NOT to get into a relationship? Find out as we chat with comedian Kane Holloway about how he failed epically at being a f*ckboy and ended up dating the woman of his dreams. We discuss why the bare minimum has become socially acceptable when dating, how to be receptive to someone's moves when you may be out of the scene, and when to listen (and not listen) to your friend's advice when it comes to your love life. Follow Kane at @kaneholloway and @dtbffpodcast and listen to 'Don't Take Bullshit from Fuckers' on all your other favorite podcast players Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Lugz: Get 30% Off Full-Priced footwear (Excludes Sale Section) at https://lugz.com/ with the code DATEABLE Hello Fresh: For 14 free meals from America's #1 meal kit (and free shipping) use the code DATEABLE14 at hellofresh.com/dateable14 Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy datable world.
0:28.1	What's up everyone? Welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern
0:36.4	dating where Julie Kraft chick and I, you a shoe, are your investigative reporters on why people do the things they do, why they say the things
0:45.8	that they say, and how do we deal with it all?
0:49.8	Love it.
0:50.8	Yeah, because we're in season 13. I cannot believe it's still season 13. So maybe we have some newbies, maybe we have people that have been with us since season one. It still shocks me every day that we have been doing this for over five years.
1:04.7	I wonder if that's how married people feel.
1:06.7	They're like, can't believe we've been married for five fucking years.
1:10.9	You might be my longest relationship I've ever been in. This year you surpassed my longest relationship.
1:17.0	My longest relationship was for five years and this year we're going on six. Right, we're going on six. Yeah, you've surpassed my longest relationship. We are life partners forever.
1:27.0	Well, it's a success story. I found Julie, not through an app app but through mutual friends.
1:35.4	We bonded over wine, you know, and then we created something very beautiful.
1:40.1	Well, technically we met through an app, kind of.
1:42.8	Not an app, but a service, a social matchmaking service.
1:48.0	Yes, that I ran, so it wasn't like you ate I said up for this, but.
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