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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

S13E1: Come As You Are w/ Emily Nagoski

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2021

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

Oh.my.god, we're kicking off Season 13 with a bang as we chat with Emily Nagoski Ph.D., author of Come As You Are, about how to navigate all the ups and downs of our sex lives (based on science, of course). We're diving in about what makes us hit the gas pedal or breaks when wanting sex, what to do if you and your partner have different levels of sexual desire, and how to navigate our sex lives through all the stages of life (stressful times included). Follow Emily at @enagoski and check out Emily's work at https://www.emilynagoski.com/ and get a copy of Come As You Are today! Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE Thrive Causemetics: For 15% off your first order visit https://thrivecausemetics.com/DATEABLE Lugz: Get 30% Off Full-Priced footwear (Excludes Sale Section) at https://lugz.com/ with the code DATEABLE Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the

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Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each

0:09.5

episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper

0:15.3

fetishes, and first moves to first loves.

0:17.8

I'm your host, U.S.U.

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Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

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You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick

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as we explore this crazy dateable world.

0:28.1

Welcome to season 13 everybody and welcome to this episode of the

0:36.2

dateable podcast where we are on a mission to dig into the wise of people's behavior when it comes to modern dating and we've been on this mission for 13

0:47.0

Frickin seasons.

0:49.0

I can't even believe it. Lucky 13, here we are and we have a treat for all of you today.

0:54.8

We are digging into the wise when it comes to sex.

0:58.1

And you guys have asked for.

0:59.4

You asked for more sex and we're giving you more sex.

1:02.4

We're giving it to you because we're a sex podcast after all you don't know

1:05.4

but sex falls into the whole scheme of things I feel like you can't have

1:10.3

dating without sex you can't have relationships without sex and we're going to go into all of that with

1:15.2

I was sort of feeling she's like the godfather of sex or like the godmother of sex I guess is the you

1:21.4

know I feel like when you hear about sex books come as you are as one that people always

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reference and we were super lucky that we're part of the Frolic media

1:31.0

network which you probably have heard us talk about many of times of the jumped at the chance to try to get her as a guest and here she is for our season

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