S12E17: What's your Communication Style? w/ Sandy Weiner

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 2 June 2021

⏱️ 83 minutes

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Summary

The key to a healthy relationship is communication....but are you a healthy communicator? From the lion to the scorpion, we're diving into the 4 communication archetypes with Sandy Weiner and learning what it takes to communicate effectively in relationships. We discuss framing our needs in a non-aggressive way, why we struggle with the inevitable conflicts in a relationship, and how becoming a better communicator is totally a skill that can be learned. Learn more about Sandy at https://lastfirstdate.com/ and listen to Last First Date Radio on your favorite podcast player. Take this quiz to learn which of the communication archetypes you are: https://lastfirstdate.com/4-communication-archetypes Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard Thank you to our partners for this episode: Title Nine: Get $10 off and free shipping on orders over $100 by going to titlenine.com/dateable Prose: Get 15% off your first order of custom shampoo and conditioner by going to prose.com/dateable Z-Man Games: Check out Love Letter for $11.99 at Target, your local game store, or directly through Z-Man’s webstore. Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphoto Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the
0:04.8	Huffington Post calls one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each
0:09.5	episode we'll talk to real daters about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper
0:15.3	fetishes, and first moves to first loves.
0:17.8	I'm your host, U.S.U.
0:19.4	Former dating coach turned dating sociologist.
0:22.0	You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craft Chick
0:25.2	as we explore this crazy dateable world.
0:28.1	Hello everyone, welcome to another episode of
0:35.0	Datable, a show all about modern dating. Our primary goal on the show is to get
0:41.8	to the bottom of why people do the things they do and
0:44.8	why people say the things that they say including yourself. I've got my lovely
0:50.7	co-host with me Julie. How are you? Oh hey this episode's all about
0:55.9	communication which is the core of it right the crux of everything with why people
1:01.8	do and say the things that they do.
1:04.0	Oftentimes you don't know until you ask.
1:06.3	That has been a hard lesson to learn.
1:09.3	I cannot count how many people I know as adults who are actually good at
1:15.1	communicating. I really can't on my 10 fingers right now. One and two
1:20.2	obviously. Ish I'm still getting there but my parents definitely not great communicators I think
1:29.2	I think okay I think the two of us have made huge strides because I do think communication is you have to really
1:35.6	put a lot of work into it and it's not going to just happen overnight. I think I was really bad at communication for a long time and I think a lot of people like me think because we're extroverted and we talk all the time we're good at communication.
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